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Sober Living Today, LLC Our mission is to create and provide a sober living home for women that offer safety and support while fostering health and recovery.

02/06/2025

Shame is very common for an alcoholic, nobody grew up saying they wanted to be an alcoholic or drug addict. It has no discrimination who this afflicts. When it comes to age and financial class, we are all free game. It is no fault to someone who is unable to think themselves out of this seemly hopeless state. Who can stop a fast moving training with one hand? It feels impossible to stop for an alcoholic in the mist of this train wreck. It may sound strange to a normal person but for an alcoholic it would be easier to comprehend going to prison for an extended time or to die. I have known many that has been faced with the dilemma and could not choose sobriety due to the state of mind and feeling of impossibility. Not a moral issue!

Early sobriety has a way of bringing up every shameful event that the alcoholic did to their family's and friends. How do we deal these memories gives staying power to the person who really wants to stay sober in spite of their past. The most important thing is not to pick up a drink or drug no matter what! The basics are important, and first things first is not drinking no matter what. Every day you stay sober is a living amends to your children, family and friends. Make that enough! Over time we change, we become more aware of others and become helpful and available. Not everyone will forgive or forget or even understand. That is ok! It is up to us to understand this malady that we have and it is up to us to be spiritually fit in order not to go back to that insanity. Every day we choose to be sober, a useful member in society is success! We now become a worthy person and most of us give back to the new struggling alcoholics and now we feel useful, worthy and confident. This is now our new reality! We can not change the past and it no longer defines us when you say so!

What to look for when searching a quality sober living home?  There are three very important things to consider.Certifie...
29/05/2025

What to look for when searching a quality sober living home? There are three very important things to consider.

Certified housing
The best certifying organization is CCAPP. California Consortium of Addiction Programs and Professionals.

They are a leading organization in addiction counselor credentialing. They also certify Recovery Residences “Sober Living” homes in California. They use a national standard set by NARR “National Alliance for Recovery Residence”. Certification means the home is not just claiming structure it is proven. Check out the link below for best practices running recovery residences.

Home | National Alliance for Recovery Residences

The County offers free Certification from RRA Recovery Residence Association

This is free and offers another look at homes to ensure the safety of homes in San Diego County.

2. Accountability

Does the house do drug testing? once or twice a week on a multi UA cup? Breathalyze daily? If a Sober living home does not do drug and alcohol testing then most likely it won’t be so sober. People that are serious about their recovery want that extra layer of protection for their sobriety. It helps them to stay sober because during a weak moment and a fleeting thought of using will be quickly defused with the knowledge they will be tested and found out. This keeps the home safe and sober for the people who really want their recovery. It take months of being in recovery, going to meeting and participating in service for some to really hear the message and choose this way of life. This type of accountability helps the alcoholic and drug addict to really experience the beauty of living in a sober community, having fun and a purposeful life.

3. Safe locations with transportation and walkability.

Most people in early recovery do not have cars and rely on public transportation, having a train or buses local is very important. Being able to walk is extremely helpful. The closer to meeting halls the better to set yourself up for success. It is one of the most difficult things to do in early sobriety is to get yourself to a meeting, get connected and feel that you are part of a group. Being in a house where people are going to meetings together and talking about the path to recovery is a helpful step to long lasting sobriety.

Sober Living Today, LLC in Carlsbad California has all three of these qualities. We have been running Certified housing since 2017. We pride ourself in taking the extra effort to do the necessary paperwork, add the safety measures and pay a little extra to get our certification. We also have volunteered on Soarr.org since 2018 making affiliations with CCAPP to help other homes in North County San Diego to be among the quality certified homes. We also are certified by the County with RRA providing clean, safe quality homes.

We have over 9 years of experience with our accountability and what works and what does not. We use a 14 panel UA cup that includes fentanyl and ETG for an extra precaution. We do daily breathalyzing but the ETG will detect any alcohol within 3 days of use. We are not claiming this is fool proof because there are so many over the counter meds and prescribed that are not detected in a regular drug panel. If someone looks loaded and are unable to adjust their meds for correction we would have to refer them to a more suitable place. We look at the house as a whole and protect the people that are willing and trying to be sober.

Sober Living Today, LLC has some of the best locations in San Diego. We are North County near the beach with a great community of Recovery. Meetings are close by and very walkable! The Carlsbad Village location has four meetings that are 3 blocks away and many more that are within a mile. There are not only many 12 step meetings in area but we also have REFUGE and SMART recover. There is something for everyone, just pick one and count yourself in! Personally I chose AA, here is a link for the many AA meetings in North County of San Diego. Meetings

Our Pier house is across the street from the beach in the City of Oceanside and provides the same accountability while living at the beach with a beautiful roof top to watch the waves while relaxing after a busy day. It is walkable to all the stores and transportation, perfect for early recovery.

We have a couple of other homes in Oceanside, one in Fire Mountain and the other in TRI City area. Each one is clean and provides a safe space to heal.

If you are thinking about treatment and are just curious, call us! Ellie 760-415-3560

Free 10 day detox from Alcohol only!  First step house for women!  NON medical and no medication for women wanting to st...
09/05/2021

Free 10 day detox from Alcohol only! First step house for women! NON medical and no medication for women wanting to start a life in sobriety.
https://wfshnc.org/

Welcome We are a group of volunteers committed to providing a free, supportive home for women who want to begin their transition away from alcohol. The Women’s First Step House offers a safe and caring environment for women to get sober with dignity and build a foundation for recovery. If you are ...

How does vision boards work?Thoughts create things:  We gather together and create our future with goals and vision boar...
09/02/2020

How does vision boards work?
Thoughts create things: We gather together and create our future with goals and vision boards. Come join the women at Sober Living Today!

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Coming Soon!Family support for AddictionComing Soon!  A panel of professional to help family members deal with addiction...
10/11/2019

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Monday Night: November 25, 2019. 5:00-6:15pm. Dove Library Carlsbad.

10/15/19 I turned 30!
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10/15/19 I turned 30!

Sober Living Today has community events for women and men throughout North County San Diego. Join us Wednesday, February...
09/02/2019

Sober Living Today has community events for women and men throughout North County San Diego. Join us Wednesday, February 13th @ 5:30pm! Pizza and D.V. talk.

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