19/03/2020
So good
It occurred to me last night, some of you may not have the same experience as I do with this whole social distancing thing. For those of you who don't know, I was the caretaker of tidal island for 12 years. I have gone 3 weeks without seeing anyone outside of my partner and my dog before so thought I might be able to help you guys out with some ideas on how to get through this potentially scary time.
- Get out of bed.
- After the initial wallow, don't stay in your PJ's all day. Getting up, washing your face, getting dressed, all of these things set your tone for the day and help you feel a sense of normalcy.
- Make a list of things you have always wanted to learn to do. Find out which of those things you have the resources for in your house right now. Have you been hoarding crafting supplies for when you have time? You want to learn a language? Resources to learn these things will be available online, likely for free. You're going to have time.
- Cook good food. Even if you didn't get to stock up a lot, google some of your ingredients and try something new. Include your kids in this...not as an ingredient, even if you are homeschooling.
- Exercise. HIIT workouts, Qi Gong, Yoga. There are all sorts of no-equipment exercises out there. Google is your friend.
- Breathe. If ever there was a time to slow down and breathe, this is it.
- Get fresh air. If you have a yard, get out there. If you don't, stick your head out the window. Crack the window and sit in the sunshine.
- If you have access to plants or a yard, garden, plant, turn some dirt. If it's a house plant, wipe the leaves and pet your plant. Seriously. (Obviously not for cactus.)
- Meditate. Get to know who you are and what makes you tick. For those of you who pray, pray in a way that comforts you.
- Talk to the people in your house. Find out what their hopes and dreams are. Find out what their fears are. And talk about these things.
- If you have work stuff to do, great, do it. But don't obsess. This is a time to learn other things about yourself.
- Let. The. Bill. Stress. Go. Yes, that's easier said than done. Yes, we are ALL stressed and maxxed out. Here's the thing, half the world will be in the same boat. Plans will be rolled out. Yes, be aware of those plans but seriously, this part will get worked out. Breathe, again.
- Pull out your candles. Pull out your china. Pull out the good glassware.
- Make a to-do list and rename it a TA-DA list. When you cross something off, exclaim, "TA-DA!" Sounds silly and it will still make you feel better.
- Pull out your musical instruments. Dust off your voice. Start singing and jamming, even if you think you're bad. You're going to have time to get better.
- Reach out for help if you need it. This goes for everything: emotional, mental, food, ...
- Be silly.
- Ration your treats. Even if you bake, still ration your treats.
- As weird as it sounds, this is a prime time to reinvent yourself. Do you wish something in your life was different? You've got time to change it. Want to lose weight? Want to quit drinking or smoking? Want to change careers? This is the time to start. Make a plan, modify it, make another plan. Honestly, if we're all under the same impetus of social distancing the FOMO will go away soon.
- On the FOMO note, unplug. Don't spend all your time online or in front of the TV. Read. Write. Draw,...
- Check on your neighbours. Check on your friends who are front-line workers and find out how you can help them, responsibly. Take care of each other.
- This is a scary time. Sit with that. Get comfortable with that as a fact. Make a list of what scares you. See if there is anything on that list that you have any control over and work to change it. Let the rest go.
- Hydrate. Wash your hands with soap. Don't touch your face. Sanitize your doorknobs, taps, etc...
- Breathe again.
Hope this helps. I may add to this as I think of things. Take care of each other (from a distance.) Be healthy.
Much love,
Claire