Spark to Flame

11/18/2022

After a year long hiatus, Spark to Flame is back and in a brand new way. I teamed up with my wonderful wife and we're starting a podcast! Check it out! https://anchor.fm/sparktoflame

09/13/2021

Life has been very crazy for me the last month or so. Been working on some things and I should have some new content coming soon. I'd love to hear video or article ideas from you - what common marriage issues do you see out there? What questions do people have? What help are people needing in their relationships but too afraid to ask?

07/13/2021

When we converse we want to be helpful, relateable listeners, who ask good questions but too much of any of these elements can be annoying. If you err, where is it? How can you be a better conversationalist with your spouse?

How we tend to communicate in everyday types of conversations can endear us to our mates or get us annoyed. Understanding basic conversation styles can help ...

06/23/2021

Do you get frustrated with your spouse during your everyday conversations? This will help...

Communication is of utmost importance in a marriage relationship. Taking some time to understand the tendencies that you and your spouse bring to the convers...

06/08/2021

New blog post with a very bold prediction! This post will save your marriage, even if doesn't need to be saved - that's how good it is!

It's only been about 3 months since I started posting videos on YouTube and 2 months of having a website, Instagram, and pages to coincide. That means that I've got 3 months in a new world and my eyes have seen a fair share of posts and blogs and videos about helping people have better marr...

05/27/2021

When you reflect on arguments and/or miscommunication in your marriage, how often can you identify childish things you said, thought, or reasoned?

05/20/2021

What drives you the most? What has the most influence? Your emotions? Your logic? or is it the path that's laid out for you?
We can help and bless our spouses when we know their goals and aspirations and help establish a path for success!

I share my COVID-19 vaccination story and how my wife used some powerful tools to get me to do what she wanted me to do (without manipulating me). We take a ...

05/04/2021

Just finished uploading my latest video
https://youtu.be/gRCrmPkEscY
Here is an infographic that goes with it

04/29/2021

Thank you! I didn't want to finish that story anyway!

04/27/2021

its hard to listen and think at the same time

04/27/2021

Woo hoo. Got the custom YouTube URL
https://www.youtube.com/c/SparktoFlameUS

just sparktoflame is taken by some dance group in India, so if you are into that - check them out too.

My name is Robert Shaver and Spark to Flame are videos created to give you ideas, insights and inspiration for a better marriage.

04/22/2021

I watched 6 episodes from Showtime's Couples Therapy. Here is one thing we can do better as couples

Even just a couple of month's ago, if I'd seen that Amazon Prime was offering the first season of a show called "Couples Therapy" FREE for a month I would have kept on scrolling. The new me, however, the me in desperate search for blog content was ready to check it out. It was not just that I'm blog...