07/29/2025
Your attachment style isn’t just showing up in your relationships—it might be showing up in your business, too.
Ever find yourself overthinking client interactions, hesitating to raise your prices, or avoiding marketing because it feels too vulnerable or “too much”?
That’s not a business problem. That’s often a nervous system pattern rooted in attachment.
Your attachment style is formed from past experiences—especially early ones—and it shapes how safe or unsafe it feels to be seen, ask for what you want, or handle rejection.
It doesn’t mean you’re broken or “not cut out for this.” It means your inner wiring just needs a little updating.
💭 Anxious attachment? You might:
Worry constantly if clients are happy with you
Feel devastated by a no-show or negative review
Struggle to set boundaries or say no to discount requests
💭 Avoidant attachment? You might:
Keep your audience at arm’s length
Procrastinate on marketing because it feels “too much”
Avoid following up with clients because it feels intrusive
💭 Fearful avoidant (disorganized)? You might bounce between both extremes—wanting connection and visibility, but fearing rejection or failure the moment you put yourself out there.
Here’s the truth:
Your attachment style is not your identity.
It’s just a learned response. And that means it can shift.
With the right support, awareness, and tools, you can rewire how you show up in business—and feel more confident, more secure, and more aligned.
✨ Curious but not sure what your attachment style is?
Here’s a quick guide:
Secure – You feel safe being seen, heard, and supported
Anxious – You crave connection but fear being judged or left
Avoidant – You prefer independence and may resist outreach or vulnerability
Fearful Avoidant – You desire success and fear what it might cost you
Which one sounds familiar?
You don’t have to share publicly, but if this hits home, feel free to DM me. I’d love to chat and help you connect the dots.