04/30/2026
Let’s talk about testosterone and s*x drive in women.
There’s a really common misconception that testosterone is just going to magically fix everyone’s libido, and as much as I wish that were true, it’s really not that simple.
What I see in practice is that women fall into two categories: those who start testosterone and feel amazing, s*x drive is up, and they feel more confident and connected. And then there are those looking at category one thinking “that must be nice” because they get maybe a little energy boost, but not much difference in libido.
So… what’s going on?
Female s*xual health is multifactorial. If you’re feeling exhausted, overwhelmed, and disconnected, it doesn’t matter how optimized your testosterone levels are, your body isn’t thinking about s*x. And if s*x isn’t on the mind, the body isn’t going to be into it.
Testosterone can be a powerful tool, but it’s not the whole picture. Sexual wellness is complex, and you deserve care that honors that complexity while addressing the root issue.