08/14/2024                                                                            
                                    
                                                                            
                                            This week, I'm visiting a dear friend who just became a mother several weeks ago. She is all the things I was with my first child - hormonal, tired, uncomfortable, in love with her baby, and still adjusting to her new role. 
Matrescence, the term for this transition into motherhood, can be challenging, wonderful, and not without grief for the life/lifestyle that used to be. Often all at the same time. 
Our book will cover matrescence in the chapter about family roles and responsibilities. Pelvic health PTs are the most obvious therapy providers to interact with people going through matrescence, but I've also encountered new mothers in neurologic rehab due to suffering a stroke during labor, or in outpatient ortho due to shoulder pain from breastfeeding. We should all be able to screen for postpartum depression/anxiety, and we can all be sensitive to the challenges of being thrown into a new role. 
While I think about matrescence this week (and soak up baby snuggles while my friend catches up on sleep!), I'm also thinking about the inverse relationship between perfectionism and self compassion. It's easy to get wrapped up in perfectionism during this transition, especially because that's the way our culture presents/judges motherhood. Self-compassion would be so protective during matrescence! More thoughts on that one next week.