04/27/2025
STORYTIME 👇🏽
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Okay, so now on to our mushy love story 🙃
Yesterday was our 2-year dating anniversary.
We met on Hinge after I had just come out, ended a 16-year heteros*xual relationship/marriage, and was still healing from my first soul tie heartbreak with a woman. I wasn’t looking for anything serious, definitely not to remarry!
But my therapist told me to keep my heart open to what could be possible. To what could show up for me because I’ve missed out on my kind of love for so long and needed to make up lost time. That I was ready. That I had been ready.
When I met her, Spirit (and my brother on the other side) said the same, loud and clear.
So I threw caution to the wind, ignored all the advice, and said f it! I felt I had nothing else to lose.
I was even the one that asked her to be my girlfriend and later, I asked her to marry me. (But she said I love you first.)
We eloped 7 months later against everything I thought I wanted post-divorce, against all logic. Trusting and following my heart, my intuition and it lead me straight to her, straight to aligned love and my the life I’ve been missing out on experiencing my entire life.
I used to think love HAD to be man and woman. That being chosen as a wife was my purpose. My identity. After divorce, I thought love was fake, overrated, a trap.
Then I thought if I was meant for love again, it had to be cosmic, past-life, fully fluent in my language of spirit and soul.
I was wrong.
Love doesn’t fit a mold. It doesn’t fit your expectations or any worldly labels.
We come from two different worlds
We don’t recognize each others souls
We speak different soul languages
We don’t always get each other
We don’t always see each other
And still—we work.
In ways that don’t need to be explained.
Our love is still a beautiful and magical thing to the point that it makes me skip barefoot in the woods like in the last slide. 😩
Iflyd ♥️🙂↕️