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Every public ritual carries a message. When the nation lowers its flag, it is not only about honoring the dead, it is ab...
09/21/2025

Every public ritual carries a message. When the nation lowers its flag, it is not only about honoring the dead, it is about shaping the living. In my new essay, I explore the politics of mourning and the selective grief that divides us. This is part of my ongoing series on how we connect, grow, and wrestle with meaning in tense times. I would love your comments.

https://coachellis.medium.com/the-politics-of-mourning-d0a4be8a97eb

Every nation has symbols that both inspire and instruct. For veterans, flags and medals carry a weight that is more than...
09/18/2025

Every nation has symbols that both inspire and instruct. For veterans, flags and medals carry a weight that is more than ceremonial. They set the moral compass of a people. My latest essay explores how these symbols unify or divide us, depending on how they are used.

Symbols, Standards, and the Soul of a Nation
Flags tell stories. Medals set standards. Both reveal who we really honor.
https://medium.com//symbols-standards-and-the-soul-of-a-nation-2c07c2a4c44f

Looking forward to your responses

Flags tell stories. Medals set standards. Both reveal who we really honor.

At Trans4mational Conversations, we believe change happens through tough but grace-filled dialogue. This piece is part o...
09/17/2025

At Trans4mational Conversations, we believe change happens through tough but grace-filled dialogue. This piece is part of that mission—naming tensions, inviting courage, and modeling how to engage without surrendering love. I’d love to hear your take after reading: How can we keep building spaces where truth and compassion meet?

https://medium.com//a-love-conversation-in-a-tense-time-1e068bcef46c

➡️ What conversations in your world right now need both truth and love?

04/18/2025
Who, besides me is b thanking God right now....
09/01/2023

Who, besides me is b thanking God right now....

05/13/2023

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I admit, my first reaction was WHAT?!?!Then I read more.  A national hymn to accompany the national anthem.  That's a no...
01/12/2021

I admit, my first reaction was WHAT?!?!
Then I read more. A national hymn to accompany the national anthem. That's a novel idea worthy of discussion. What do you think?

To help heal racial wounds, U.S. Rep. Jim Clyburn is pushing to make "Lift Every Voice and Sing,'' the Black national anthem, America's national hymn.

Join Coach Ellis today at 1100 EST for a Trans4Mational Conversation at http://bit.ly/bsnfb.  This FB Live is part of th...
05/22/2020

Join Coach Ellis today at 1100 EST for a Trans4Mational Conversation at http://bit.ly/bsnfb. This FB Live is part of the Black Speaker's Network Spotlight series.

OK Army Times, let's to better.  First of all, this is a terrible crime, and those responsible should face the harshest ...
09/24/2019

OK Army Times, let's to better. First of all, this is a terrible crime, and those responsible should face the harshest of penalties. What follows here is not a discourse on the crime but on your reporting. After reading this article this morning, I followed the trail (hyperlinks) to other four stories related to this. What I found disturbing is that three of the four articles with pictures showed benign images, two of gavels ("P**n, s*x charges tied to Army love triangle death case" dated 17 Mar 16, and "Soldier facing murder trial guilty of s*x abuse" dated 7 Jul 17) and one of Tripler Army Medical Center (this article). However, one of them ("Woman arrested in stabbing of Soldier's wife" dates 29 Apr 15) shows what appears to be a mug shot of the African American woman accused of the murder. My issue: When does the Army Times take responsibility for perpetuating negative stereotypes of minorities? In this series of articles, her picture appears in one that states that she had been arrested (not convicted) of this crime, however, his picture did not appear in ANY of the articles including those that detailed his conviction for assault, communicating a threat, child po*******hy, s*xual abuse of a child AND second-degree murder. Not to mention that he was also accused of prostitution. It did not take a leap of imagination to assume that the convicted former Army SGT was not a minority. Upon further research, this man, from upper New York area was indeed very much NOT a minority. So, Army Times, are you APATHETIC that you are furthering the racist narrative of African American's propensity for crime? Are you (as a renown internationally read media source) IGNORANT of the messaging that such a series of pictures have? Are you INTENTIONAL in your promotion of a stereotype that plagues our national consciousness? Additionally, I find it "interesting" that the "byline" for the April 15 story with the unfortunate picture is "Staff and Wire Reports" and not an individual. This individual or collective cowardice exacerbates the issue. Surely, somebody had to approved and make a conscious decision to put a photo of an accused (African American) from one article and not any photos of the convicted (European American) in any of the three articles published. If the Army Times contends that this was not done purposely, then that would mean that there must be an underlying subconscious space in the Times collective that did not think it worthy of introspection, reflection, or consideration. That level of carelessness is astonishing. For a publication that serves members of the greatest profession in the world, with multiple forms of diversity...THIS IS UNACCEPTABLE!! Let's do better.

A former Army medic stationed in Hawaii was expected to plead guilty Monday to the murder of his wife, about a week before a trial was about to begin in a case involving p**n, s*x charges and a love triangle.

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