
05/16/2025
Pain and difficulty is a necessary part of life. In the moment, it might feel like a painful emotion will never pass. But given time, emotions lessen in intensity until they dissapear.
When faced with difficult situations, sometimes you just need ot get through the next few minutes or hours. Distractions can help you buy time and make it through distressing emotions.
The acronym ACCEPTS is a great way to provide some distractions when you need it most.
A - ACTIVITIES: engage in an activity that requires thought and concentration. Read, exercise, watch TV, or do something fun.
C - CONTRIBUTING: focus on someone or something else other than yourself. Do a good deed, volunteer, or plant a flower in a park.
C - COMPARISONS: look at your situation in comparison to something worse. Think of a time when things were worse, or someone who is going through something more difficult.
E - EMOTIONS: Do something that will create a competing emotions. Feeling sad? Watch a funny movie. Feeling nervious? Listen to soothing music.
P - PUSHING AWAY: Push negative throughts out of your mind. Imagine writing your problem on a piece of paper, crumpling it up, and throwing it away. Refuse to think about the situation until a better time.
T - THOUGHTS: Occupy your thoughts so you don’t have time to dwell. Count backwards from 1,000, recite the lyrics to your favorite song, read a book.
S - SENSATIONS: Find a safe physical sensation to distract you. Hold an ice cube in your hand, eat something sour, click your toungue loudly, play with a fidget toy.
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