Tabitha Westbrook, LMFT, LCMHC, LPC

02/03/2026

Join us tomorrow!

Ya'll this case is really heating up now! NEW TIME 6PM EST!
🚩 One Lawyer. One Therapist. One Heck of a Conversation!

Trauma therapist Tabitha Westbrook from The Journey & The Process joins domestic violence attorney Tiffany Lesnik to break down the hidden red flags in the Tepe case that most people, and the media, are missing.

We are not speculating or diagnosing.
We are examining patterns of abuse that trauma professionals see every day.

In this LIVE discussion, we cover: ACCESS HERE: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l_dlKlBpjtk

✔️ How abusers can obsess and stalk for years
✔️ Why most victims suffer in silence
✔️ Why the legal record often does NOT reflect reality
✔️ Why many survivors never call police or file protective orders
✔️ What coercive control actually looks like
✔️ Why the most dangerous time is after separation
✔️ How public charm hides private violence
✔️ Trauma bonding & delayed disclosure
✔️ What survivors recognize instantly but systems miss

This conversation will change how you understand domestic violence cases.

⚠️ IMPORTANT DISCLAIMER

This discussion is educational and trauma-informed.
We are not making factual determinations or accusations about anyone involved.
We are discussing behavioral patterns seen in DV cases.

🕊️ LEARN MORE ABOUT US:

Tabitha Westbrook, Therapist
Licensed Trauma Therapist & Survivor
Founder of The Journey & The Process
Author of "Body & Soul: Healed and Whole"
Specializing in abuse recovery & trauma healing
https://thejourneyandtheprocess.com
https://www.tabithawestbrook.com
https://www.tabithawestbrook.com/heytabi

Tiffany Lesnik, Attorney
Domestic Violence Attorney and Trauma Expert
Owner of Lesnik Family Law & Live Free Legal
Tiffany is known for her survivor-centered approach, real-world courtroom experience, and fearless conversations about how the legal system often fails abused women. Her mission is simple: No woman should face court with an abuser alone.
🔗 Live Free Legal Website:
https://www.livefreelegal.com
🔗 Coaching Groups:
https://www.livefreelegal.com/coaching

LESNIK AND WESTBROOK OFFER:
📺 trauma-informed legal education on YouTube
💬 Nationwide coaching support, speaking, podcasts
🕊️ Faith-based encouragement + strategy

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02/02/2026

This week's Hey Tabi podcast is super duper practical. It's a shorty - just about 15 minutes. Take a listen, try some of the stuff out, and let me know if it was helpful!!

Podcast Episode · Hey Tabi! · 02/02/2026 · 17m

02/02/2026

Join us next Saturday, 07 February 2026 in Wake Forest, NC for the Refreshed Women's Retreat. This isn't just another activity or thing to do. It's a time to...

01/31/2026

The best kind of morning. Cold. Clear. Calm. And in Vanquility.

How are you spending this Saturday morning?

01/30/2026

Look at all these fabulous faces! And mine is one of them! So excited to be a speaker at the Women’s Retreat 30 April - 03 May 2026! This is one of my favorite events every year. If you are a survivor or people helper, you should join us!

01/29/2026

Women... Come be refreshed. Saturday, February 7th. Wake Forest, NC

It feels like the weight of the world is so high. There are all kinds of terrifying, heartbreaking things in the news. And in the midst of all of it, you hav...

01/29/2026

New merch alert... Turn on the lights and the rats will run... We know turning on the lights when oppression in present shines a light in the darkness. And we know darkness can never overcome light. Let's raise a righteous ruckus together, shall we? See the links in the first two comments.

01/29/2026

Really excited to be speaking at this year's Called to Peace Ministries Women's Retreat. If you haven't registered, are a survivor of domestic abuse/coercive control or a people helper who serves this population, you need to get registered and come!

✨ We are so excited to share more of incredible lineup of speakers joining us for our 2026 Called to Peace Ministries Women’s Retreat! ✨

Each speaker brings a distinct voice, unique expertise, and a deeply rooted understanding of trauma, healing, faith, and restoration. Together, they will guide you through conversations and teachings that speak not only to the heart and mind—but also to the body, where so many survivors carry the weight of their stories.

This retreat is more than a weekend away. It is an invitation to:
🤍 Rest in God’s presence
🤍 Experience safety, clarity, and truth
🤍 Begin reconnecting with your body, your story, and your faith
🤍 Find strength and wholeness within a supportive, understanding community

Rooted in Psalm 73:26 — “God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever”, our time together at Lake Junaluska (April 30–May 3, 2026) is intentionally designed to help you step out of survival mode and into God’s redemptive care.

✨ View our full list of speakers here:
https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1sHQ34TvZh_yRUQVHUUImY3V1ZV2ooSLNd9PkwIAzFTg/edit?gid=0 =0

Whether you are a survivor, a supporter, or someone longing for deeper healing and renewal, this retreat offers thoughtful teaching, compassionate care, and sacred space for God to meet you exactly where you are.

Come as you are.
Leave strengthened, grounded, and reminded—you are not alone.

Register for the 2026 Women's Retreat: Calledtopeace.org/suvivor-healing-retreat

01/26/2026

Winter storm. Icy. Everything closed. Yet we still managed to complete Brainspotting Phase 1 with many of us doing all three days in person. We had some who had to be online due to the weather, and I’m so glad & his team were able to be creative! Steve & our assistants were amazing and led us so well!

So glad to have our team trained. Now our entire staff (minus one on maternity leave & one of just hired) are trained in Brainspotting. More ways to help our clients heal & grow!

01/25/2026

An advantage of getting iced in with your trainer is some extra training. So grateful & humbled Steve gave us a bit extra in an experiential session with wisdom he’s learned from others in his career. It was a late night while snow & sleet fell outside around us of bonding & learning. What a sweet gift we got.

01/25/2026

In many faith communities, emotions are often misunderstood or suppressed. It's time we find a language to express how we feel in a healthy way. Let's create a safe space to acknowledge them and appreciate how we are created. Don't miss our next Hey Tabi Podcast where I talk with amazing therapist Emma Ward about this topic. 🙏

Available Monday, 26 January 2026 on all major podcast platforms and The Journe and The Process YouTube channel.