WholeStory Speech

01/02/2026

If social skills worked by telling kids what you to do, your child would already be doing it.

When kids freeze, melt down, or forget what they “know,”
it’s not refusal.

It’s overload.
Before fixing.
Before teaching.
Before correcting.
Pause.
Listen..

Understand the story first.
Skills come back when the story makes sense.
Story first. Skills follow.

12/30/2025

Knowing about the pause
is different from using it.

MicroBook One is available now.

And soon, I’ll guide a gentle Zoom
to help you practice the pause together.

Support is coming 🤍

12/15/2025

Today I’ll show that empathy starts by paying attention.

Not fixing.
Not teaching.
Not rushing them through the feeling.

Just noticing.
Their eyes. Their body. The moment they hesitate before they speak.

When a child feels seen, they don’t have to work so hard to be understood.
When we slow down enough to pay attention, connection happens naturally, and everything else grows from there.

This is the kind of work I care about most: small moments that quietly change the way our kids feel with us.

If you want gentle, realistic ways to practice this (without adding more to your plate), my microbooks are made for exactly that.
You can find them in my Stan Store, link in bio.

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12/05/2025

Today I’ll speak about loneliness as something we all understand: the kind that slips in even when our homes are full and our calendars are packed. Parents know this feeling in a very specific way, giving so much, holding so much, and still wondering if anyone really sees us. But naming it doesn’t make us weak; it makes room for connection. It reminds us that behind every packed lunch, bedtime story, and school drop-off is a parent who also needs to feel understood. When we make room for connection, even in small seconds, we remind ourselves we’re not alone in this season. Someone else has felt this. Someone else gets it. And connection can start right here.

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12/01/2025

WholeStory knows what it feels like for parents to be overwhelmed and challenged when their kids struggle socially. It can feel like there’s no hope, like you have no power to fix things.

That’s why I created the WholeSecond Microbook series.

You may feel like you have to make massive changes overnight. But WholeSeconds Microbooks teach you how to start with just one second of learning new skills to support your child’s social journey.

Every book in this series is:
● Affordable
● Compact, yet comprehensive
● Designed to track your personal progress

Start with one skill today — get your WholeSeconds E-Book Microbook, link in bio 🔗

11/19/2025

Sending love to all the people this week!

Trip come and go, but the memories stay forever.
Last year at the ASHA Convention in Seattle, I started the trip by speaking at a local school. I still remember the parents’ feedback, their appreciation and gratitude.

Then I walked into the ASHA convention and saw my book’s image displayed. It was surreal. Every late night, every draft, every “is this worth it?” suddenly felt seen.

From the book signing, to thoughtful conversations with researchers, to dinner with my PhD committee chair… those moments weren’t just highlights, they were reminders of why this work matters.

WholeStory is about connection, conversation, and the humans who grow through it.
Grateful for the community that keeps believing in this work with me.

Here’s to memories that stay forever and the stories we’ll keep telling. 🥂

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11/16/2025

10/27/2025

Today I’ll notice the story under the silence.
Because sometimes what your child isn’t saying says the most.

When a child goes quiet, it doesn’t always mean they don’t care, don’t know, or don’t want to talk, it often means they don’t yet have the words to match what they feel.

In WholeStory's Story Emotion Social Therapy (SEST), we teach parents and therapists to listen between the words: to gently uncover the emotions, needs, or thoughts that live underneath the quiet moments. That’s where true connection begins. 💞

Try this today:
Pause. Notice the silence.
Ask yourself, “What story might be underneath?”

It’s a WholeStory skill — and a whole new way to understand your child.

🗓️ Want daily reminders like this for yourself or your team? My WholeStory Calendar is made just for you.

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10/23/2025

Ever feel like your child’s words don’t match what’s really going on?
You’re not alone. So many parents tell me, “I try to listen, but I don't feel like I really understand what my child's trying to say.”

➡ Here’s the truth: kids don’t always say what they feel. They need to feel safe and understood.
That’s why, in WholeStory's Story Emotion Social Therapy (SEST) approach, I teach parents a WholeStory skill called listening to understand - pausing to hear what your child means, not just what they say.

💡Today I’ll reminder:

Today I’ll pause long enough to listen for what my child means, not just what they say.

When you practice this WholeStory skill, you shift from correcting behavior to understanding emotion — and that’s where communication and calm begin to grow.

👨‍👩‍👧 Try this today:
Next time your child snaps or shuts down, take a breath and ask yourself, “What are they trying to tell me?”
That one pause can turn tension into trust.

⭐ Want gentle reminders like this every morning?
They’re all inside my WholeStory Parent Calendar - a year of small, powerful mindset shifts that strengthen connection one day at a time.

Because every child has a story and when you listen with heart, you help them share their WholeStory. 🤍

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10/22/2025

Every parent deserves to help their child thrive socially. If you've ever wished parenting came with daily reminders this is for you!

I’m Dr. Rochel Lieberman, and I created “Today I’ll” reflections to help parents and kids make sense of their social world one mindful moment at a time.
Each reflection is a tiny reminder to slow down and connect in a way that builds understanding, calm, and confidence.
Read one in the morning, during carpool, or before bed, and let it guide how you show up that day.
Start with me today and see how small shifts can change the way you and your child understand each other 🤍
🎥 Watch the trailer above and follow for your daily “Today I’ll” reminder.

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