Life Happens Counseling & Wellness

05/15/2024

New website!

LIFE HAPPENS THERAPY & COACHING Helping women reclaim their identity With over 2 decades of experience, Holli Driver is an experienced therapist offering coaching and therapy virtually specializing in women's issues, life transitions and weight loss surgery. CHECK OUT MY OFFERS We get to choose how....

08/31/2022

Stop waiting...

Stop waiting for the perfect time...
Stop waiting for this to be right...
Stop waiting for that to happen...

You can do it now...
You can do it alone...
You can do it broke...
You can have it all...

If you're waiting for a spouse, to have a kid, to be your ideal weight, to have a thigh gap, to have your money just right....

YOU ARE GOING TO RUN OUT OF TIME!!

Book the ticket, wear the outfit, do the thing...

16 years ago today, I had gastric bypass. I have maintained 100 lbs plus weight-loss every since... It’s about the weight & all it represents & not about the weight at the same time...

Fun fact: Insurance would not cover my weight-loss surgery. I was broker than broke & my credit was crap. My little brother co-signed on a loan with me to be able to have the surgery. I worked nights at a group home to pay it back on top of my full-time job....the surgery helped change the trajectory of my life, health & provided a way for so many adventures!!

This is what I'm talking about...if I would've waited until my insurance covered the surgery or my finances were "right", I would have missed or delayed so many opportunities or potentially have died according to my doctors. I was pre-diabetic with a total cholesterol of 288 weighing 267 lbs.

You don't have to have your s**t together to get your s**t together!!

If you don't go for "it", someone else will...

03/29/2022

💫Transgenerational energy...

Counseling is a safe space to address your mess....

And, help you pull strength from generational experiences!!

🔥🔥You have FIERCE DNA!!!

💪What strengths did your ancestors pass to you?

02/14/2022

⏳️⏰️Don’t Wait…

Don’t wait for a special occasion!

Don’t wait for someone to do it FOR you!

Don’t wait for someone to do it WITH you!

Don’t wait for the perfect time…the time is NOW!

🍫Buy the chocolates!
🍜Take yourself to that new restaurant you have been wanting to try!
🌍Go on that trip you have been dreaming of SOLO!
🍴Eat the churros solo on a golf cart on Back Street in San Pedro, Belize!

💖Date yourself the way you deserve!
🔥Model for everyone around you how you want to be treated!
💫Know YOUR value!
🤩Embrace YOUR worth!

💕You are enough!

Invest in yourself! DM me to find out more about 1 on 1 escapes with me to San Pedro, Belize 😍

02/07/2022

💫She is my manifestation…

💫I stood on the shoreline praying, repeating my mantra. I watched excitedly with tears in my eyes as I saw the water taxi appear and begin to dock.

🔥The woman I am about to meet for the first time… in person…this woman is my manifestation!

🔥She is the manifestation of months of work, dreams, visions, hopes, doubts, concerns, questions.

🌟🤩She is my manifestation and so are YOU!

🤗I am holding space for YOU!

🌠🌠What are you manifesting? What steps need to be taken for your dreams to come to fruition?

🧏‍♀️DM me for a 1 on 1 session or to plan YOUR 1 on 1 Escape with me to Belize!

02/02/2022

🤗I'm holding space for YOU...

🤔Interested in a 1 on 1 or the Women’s Escape?

Hopefully, this answers some of your questions.

www.hollidriver.com

💫💫Feel free to DM me💫💫

11/29/2021

🔥🔥Last Day for sales pricing!

✈✈You pick your dates & length of adventure! Your Unplug Escape is customized to your emotional, mental, spiritual & physical needs & desires!

🗓Once the dates are picked, you book your flight & I do the rest!

💫💫Once the deposit is paid, I will send you a welcome email that contains an assessment. The assessment will guide our time together to ensure you get the absolute most out of your experience!

🙏🙏It's YOUR turn! It's time you fill your own cup up making time & space to rediscover & reclaim YOUR identity!

🦈🌊✈💃Let's go on an adventure!

11/27/2021

Special pricing through Monday!!

I provide concierge services from start to finish & everything in-between....Let’s Go On An Adventure while working on self!!!

Feel free to contact me with questions.....join me in San Pedro, Belize!

11/03/2021

🙈🙉🙊This s**t ain’t pretty…

💯Awakenings aren’t pretty.

💯Healing isn’t graceful.

💣😩😩This s**t is dirty!! To face your own shadows, your own darkness to make space for the light is dirty work!

😥😢😭It’s crying until your eyes are swollen. It’s not showering. It’s exhaustion. It’s isolation. It’s overwhelming depression and debilitating anxiety….

💫💫BUT, when you decide to do the work & take on whatever motto works for you…the REWARDS of healing are unmeasurable!!

💥💥By any means necessary….have the awakening, take on the task to heal self, to confront trauma and then make the choice to do the work by crawling, climbing, scratching…any means necessary!

💃The work will never end, completely, but when you consistently confront your shadow self the view from the other side, out of the darkness is mighty FREEING!!💃

🤔🤔If you are curious about facing your shadow self in order to heal, contact me.

🥰Let's go on this healing adventure together!

09/13/2021

Invest in yourself…

“There is no more profitable investment than investing in yourself. It is the best investment you can make; you can never go wrong with it. It is the true way to improve yourself to be the best version of you and lets you be able to best serve those around you.” Roy T. Bennett, The Light in the Heart

Why not invest in YOURSELF? What do you have to gain from investing in yourself?

Investing in yourself leads to positive well-being and outcomes: increased self-awareness, self-esteem, compassion towards self and others, personal growth, continued improvement….the list is limitless!

Several months ago, I wrote out goals for myself: mental, personal, spiritual, physical, financial, professional. Then, I started hiring, signing up for things that aligned with the goals I wanted to achieve.

Professionally & Financially:
I hired a business coach who has helped me map out the who, when, where of my professional goals. She also has been instrumental in bringing me up to speed with current technology and creative ways to utilize social media. I hired a website designer who also rebranded my business. I maintain monthly access to a stock market discord chatroom for continuous learning, webinars and a second pair of eyes on charts.

Spiritually:
I scheduled sessions with intuitive life path counselors, natal chart readings, spiritual mentors. I downloaded the “I AM” app, meditation apps.

Mentally:
I have continued sessions with a licensed therapist. I am addressing healthy boundaries, eliminating toxic behaviors & limiting beliefs and digging through shadow work. I search out people, places and things that mentally stimulate me and feel good to my nervous system.

Physically:
I hired a personal trainer who has been a phenomenal cheerleader that I can’t wait to get back into training with in October. I have eliminated dairy, processed foods and alcohol. I have focused on nourishing my body with fresh, colorful foods and lots of water. I get regular massages, facials, whatever speaks to me during the week or month.

Investing in myself has led to radical change for the good in my overall well-being and happiness!!!

What are your goals? How could investing in yourself benefit you? What is one way you could invest in yourself this week?