12/30/2023
I see a lot of people reflecting on this year! For us this year was hard. From May to August was the hardest. We went in May preparing to be told Finn had cerebral palsy, instead we were told he had Chiari’s and would need surgery. We researched and we prepared! As prepared as we thought we were, Nothing prepares you for seeing your child lying in the ICU in pain after neck and brain surgery (one of the worst painful surgeries someone can have, according to our ICU nurse). What was supposed to be one night in ICU turned into 4 and 1 night on the pediatric floor. We took turns sleeping in a chair by his bed. Watching him cry from the pain, vomiting and allergic reaction to his meds. We sat and watched him recover.At two weeks post op he ended up have a small CSF leak and secondary infection that resulted in multiple trips across the lake and an overnight stay. We watched him, how strong and amazing he is 💜
What else we weren’t prepared for was our amazing family, friends, strangers, our community and many medical parents coming together to support us. From the fundraisers, motorcycle rides from the MRMC, Run for Jon, a local yard sale, the Plattsburgh mom’s group, and many medical mamas reaching out. I am forever grateful for the people who we have met on this journey.
We are 6 months post op In January! We still have a lot of unknowns and upcoming testing. A few bumps long the way. As of right now Finn is doing well. He is thriving in school, no doubt to his amazing team or teachers and therapist. We still have lots of appointments that are upcoming in the new year but really hope 2024 is good to us💜
I will post another post on new years of all the positives of 2023. This is just a little update on Finn, his story, and his progress!