02/27/2026
Resentment in motherhood is one of the most misunderstood emotions.
Most moms feel ashamed of it.
But resentment usually isn’t about your kids. It’s about the slow erosion of your own needs.
When you spend years putting yourself last,emotionally, physically, mentally, something starts to build.
You feel unseen.
Unprioritized.
Overextended.
And instead of saying, “I need support,” it comes out sideways, snapping, withdrawing, feeling disconnected, fantasizing about being alone.
That doesn’t mean you’re a bad mom.
It means your nervous system has been carrying too much for too long.
Resentment is often a sign that something inside you needs attention.
This is the kind of work we do in therapy and EMDR, helping moms reconnect with themselves without guilt and without blowing up their families.
If this resonates, you’re not alone.
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