11/13/2024
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Here's the thing. Lactation is a human right, for humans who want to make milk and provide that for their babies. Supporting humans in doing this is a community responsibility and for me personally something I see as an immense honor that I take very seriously. That includes ALL people, absolutely including and uplifting trans women through inducing lactation or offering at-body feedings with supplementation and every other option and also trans men in chestfeeding or suppressing lactation or any other option they choose, as well encompassing respectful and inclusive language and care measures for all trans, Two Spirit, nonbinary, and gender expansive relatives.
Lactation as a human right has been systemically interrupted and attacked in targeted communities starting with settler colonialism and generational enslavement of families, forced wet nursing, destruction and separation of Black and Indigenous families, and continuing on through current times through the child services to prison pipeline, predatory formula marketing, bias in healthcare and so much more.
Lactation as an industry is rooted in the settler colonial destruction of physiologic norms as social standards. Lactation relationships are destroyed by the society we live in, which creates a situation in which lactation becomes a privilege but also sometimes a risk factor and an opening for ongoing harm. People from these targeted communities have long felt the consequences of receiving "care" from an industry rooted in oppression, and yet outside of our communities, there is still shock when the voice comes from inside the house.
Lactation and birth groups are afire with conversation about the news that one of the founding members of LLL, Marian Tompson, has resigned in a hateful anti-trans letter to the board, and other trustees have gone with her.
LLL has perpetrated so much harm over the years, and has pushed back so vocally against inclusivity, I am zero percent surprised. I don't really have a concise point to make, just some meandering observations. I think it boils down to...look at the houses you are living in....at the foundations they have been built on and the walls that they have erected. When it is baked in so deeply - whether that is an industry or a certifying body or an entire government...at what point do we stop trying to remodel and instead build a new house? So, while I am glad to see someone with those views exit an organization (any org - all orgs!) it also just reminds me that one person is not the problem....it's the systems.