05/15/2026
One thing I really enjoy about therapy is teaching people practical skills and giving them tools they can actually use in their everyday life. That is a big reason we like sharing some of these ideas and exercises on Facebook. Sometimes one small concept, skill, or shift in perspective can genuinely help someone get through a difficult moment a little more effectively.
One mindfulness skill I like teaching is called “Dropping Anchor.” The idea behind it is pretty simple. When emotions, anxiety, stress, or overwhelming thoughts start pulling us around like a storm, we stop trying to mentally wrestle with the storm and instead focus on grounding ourselves in the present moment.
A lot of people think mindfulness means clearing your mind or instantly becoming calm. It really does not. Sometimes mindfulness is simply learning how to stay grounded while your brain is doing backflips and trying to convince you that every problem in your entire life needs solved immediately 😅
Dropping Anchor is all about slowing things down and reconnecting with what is physically around you. Your feet on the floor. Your breathing. The feeling of the chair you are sitting in. The sounds around you. The moment you are actually in instead of the 47 imaginary scenarios your brain is trying to drag you into.
The goal is not to make difficult emotions magically disappear. It is about helping ourselves stay steady enough that we can respond intentionally instead of getting completely swept away by stress, emotions, or overthinking.
I attached a short guided exercise for anyone that wants to practice the skill a little more directly.
https://www.actmindfully.com.au/wp-content/uploads/2023/08/Dropping-anchor-4-mins-Russ-Harris-The-Happiness-Trap.mp3