05/21/2025
This is our last post in our "Helping Your Child Say More" series.
These last 2 are my personal favorites in general language stimulation strategies, but also probably the ones that take the most self-control and thought as the adult language partner.
1) Comment vs Asking Questions
Making communication fun and less stressful is good for your child's developing communication. Asking questions makes communicating feel more like a test for your child - it puts lots of pressure on them to communicate. Whereas, commenting gives them lots of language and the words to say, and removes the pressure. This is essentially parallel talk/narrating, but the focus on this strategy is to LIMIT THE QUESTIONS
So, instead of asking "What are you doing?" "What color are you using?" "What are you coloring?", say, "You are coloring." "You are using red." "You color the dog brown" and so on...
2) Wait Time (my favorite personal challenge when providing language therapy)
While it is important to give your child the words - it's also important to give them opportunity to use their words.
As said above, we do want to limit pressure in the form of "testing" pressure, but not all communicative pressure is a bad thing. It shows them it takes participation to communicate too.
Wait time is the coolest tool to use, in my opinion, to create subtle pressure for your child to say a word. Wait time is what it sounds like - you are literally going to give your child an extended time period to say a word before you give the the word.
Doing this in repetitive play is a great way to promote them using a word. For example, maybe you've modeled how to say the word "go!"
You are playing with a car and pushing it across the floor. You've pushed it a few times and said "Ready, Set, Go!". After modeling it, you give them an opportunity to use it - you say, "Ready, Set.....[then pause]" wait max of ten seconds staring at them expectantly before you push the car. If they say, "go!" you've seen the beauty of wait time. If they don't, no worries, give them the word and keep trying!
You can keep using wait time for each word of that phrase, until they are saying it all by themselves!
There are a few more strategies that are helpful - but, the ones we've covered in this post series are good ones to start with!
If you have any questions on how to use these strategies or have any questions regarding speech and language therapy - reach out for a free consultation or for more information.
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