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Ryan's Recovery, Wilkesboro, NC (2026)

06/01/2026

Hey everybody! I have some updates to share about Ryan's scans and wounds but I will do that in the next day or so.

The purpose of this post is to ask you guys to please pray for my niece's baby! I mentioned her on a couple previous lives. She declined very quickly and in a matter of just a handful of days it seems… She ended up in Pittsburgh where she was med flighted out of Charlotte a few days ago. She is miraculously having liver transplant surgery this morning. Please pray for the surgeons, doctors and entire medical team that are involved with this life saving procedure. Pray that baby Sadie and her little body receives the liver and heals well. I know she will have a long road ahead of her but this is the first step.

Please also pray for the family who lost their loved one and is giving their liver to save Sadie. My family is hyper aware of this type of situation and it is a very sensitive subject and we therefore grieve for them and at the same time so thankful for Sadie to be given a chance to live.

And please pray for her parents, Mariah & Chase, who have been through so much in the last few weeks. I love them so much and they are the sweetest mama and daddy to Sadie. (And of course extended family and all who love Sadie). They are also both having to be out of work to care for her needs! They are looking at at least a month stay in the Pittsburgh hospital while she heals from surgery and then multiple weekly visits following that. So they will be living far from home for quite some time. Someone started a GoFundMe page for them to help with all of these medical expenses and to help support them while they are living away from home and not working.
I remember living far from home for six months while Ryan was in a coma and in rehab. Definitely mentally and physically exhausting times but I know so many kind people helped me through that.

I will update in the next day or so on how she is doing as well as Ryan. Thank you all for standing in the gap for me and my family!!

***(the two photos with Ryan were taken the first time he met Sadie which was back at the beginning of April. It was the week we all found out that something was not right with her liver. She laid so peacefully in Ryan's arm and slept.🥰)

https://gofund.me/1952e1891

03/26/2026

Hey everybody! Just wanted to provide you all with a bit of an update. I know so many are always praying and wondering specifically about how they can pray. Ryan was finally able to get in for a wound care appointment about a month ago. They were not able to actually stage the wounds and tell how deep they were because of all of the dead tissue around them. So Ryan was prescribed an enzyme cream that we have to dress his wounds with daily with hopes to take care of all of the extra "sloth". We will go back tomorrow to see how they have progressed. Hopefully they will be able to stage them. And at that point see whether or not he will need a wound VAC for one or multiple wounds.
Ryan is still bound to his bed and that makes it extra hard since we've been having such beautiful weather lately. On Friday it was so nice outside and I felt so sorry for him always having to stay inside while the kids go out and play. And there are things I have to get done outside so I take a monitor with me so I can keep a check on him. So I thought I would try and get him in his chair and put him on the porch to just get some fresh air. It was a very long process to get everything set up for him and once we did he just stopped responding. I'm assuming this was due to pain but was finally able to get him to agree he needed to get back in bed after just a few short minutes. I was sad that we were not successful but we had to at least try.

I definitely want to say thank you so very much for all the people that have sent in supplies to us to help with his wounds and care. Patches and medicine and Juven and all these things are so insanely expensive people just done realize but we have needed so much of it since he came home in November and so many of you have been such a great blessing to us. We are also extremely grateful that God has provided for us to continue to have a nurse. Her service to Ryan and myself has been invaluable these last few months as I have needed so much help with Ryan's extra level of needs.

My knee is still not doing well. I'm actually going to have to have another procedure. I am going to have an arthroscopy where my doctor will go in and look around and make sure things are healing well and he will remove the lining of my joint as well as perform another manipulation. I will then need to be sure to be in therapy every day for about two weeks. Prayerfully I can make all this work. Unfortunately insurance has denied it so we are working through the red tape of getting an appeal done. Please help me pray this surgery will be approved AND very successful and I can get as close back to normal as possible!

I am including some pictures from lately. Ryan has definitely put weight back on and his color is much better from all the damage that was done while he was in the hospital. Olivia lost her first tooth, Levi scored top percentile in his end of grade testing, Caroline got her ears pierced. My niece Mariah (if you followed the story from the beginning you know her involvement and how important it was in Ryan's journey at the beginning) had her first baby. A beautiful girl back in February. And my niece Ashlyn that helped me so much with Ryan that many of you know from that, got engaged last week!😊

Most days I don't have anything to say… We just push through one day at a time and survive but every day is a gift that God has given us life and breath to at least come on here and say that He is good!

01/02/2026

Hey everybody. Hope you all had a wonderful Christmas! Ryan has now officially been home for one month. He is putting weight back on and has definitely gotten his color back. That last stent in the hospital really did a number on him. Even though it was not documented in his discharge notes both for home or to his physicians, he was released with EIGHT pressure wounds. He went in to the progressive unit from the Neuro ICU with ZERO so for the few weeks he was in that one unit he developed eight of them! We followed appropriate channels to file complaints and ask questions as to why there were no photos or documentations of these wounds, but it got us nowhere. We are awaiting an appointment with wound care. Because of the wounds he is not able to get in his chair or travel so this has made making appointments quite difficult. Life does look pretty different for Ryan now versus before his hospitalization but I know he is thankful to be home. We are all thankful he is home.

My recovery with my knee is going... well... very slow. I was finally given the go ahead to bear weight again at my appointment in early December. I started physical therapy in the home. Even though I'm allowed to bear weight and have been given permission to bend, my knee will not bend. There could be a few different reasons why this is happening, but it is very frustrating. I haven't really made any progress as far as the degrees that I'm able to bend. Just help me pray as I'm nervous about what will have to be done moving forward.

God definitely showed His hand of protection over us a couple of weeks ago when a fire was accidentally started in our yard. We had to call the Fire department and by the time everything was put out it burned up quite a bit of our yard. Thankfully, it burned around our actual deck and house and even burned a circle around our propane tank! 🤯 God was surely watching out after us.

We had a great Christmas all being together. It was my second one without my parents. I don't think it will ever get easier.
Unfortunately, our gift was the flu. 🥴 All five of us have been extremely sick and it's running its final course on Ryan right now. Caring for Ryan with my injury has proven to be a very difficult task but we do the best we can. My sister was a lifesaver on my worst days and helped keep him turned, medicated and fed! A sweet friend brought soup and thank the Lord for Walmart bringing meds right to the door!!

I want to also say thank you from the bottom of my heart for all of the Christmas gifts that were sent for my children and my family as a whole. Every Christmas card and kind word was taken with much gratefulness. We are so thankful to have the support and prayers of so many people out there. At times it is overwhelming to sit and think about all that you guys have done for us. Once we are better and things have calmed down a bit I hope to do a live with Ryan. Thank you all again and here's to a blessed new year!

11/29/2025

Your outpouring of love for our kids from my last post has been so humbling. 'Thank you' seems so small and not like nearly enough. But THANK YOU!!🩵🩷💜

I had a doctor reach out to me to let me know that the culture they took from the abscess they drained in Ryan's abdomen has come back positive with Proteus. The very same bacteria that put him in septic shock and into the hospital back in August! He is now on an antibiotic. Help us pray this helps clear up any issues!

11/28/2025

Hey everybody. Hope you all had a wonderful Thanksgiving. Ryan has now been home for about six days. He is definitely quite different to take care of now than he was three months ago before he went into the hospital. The first few days were a little intimidating, but I'm definitely getting back in the swing of things... the best I can with a non weight bearing leg. It's been difficult, but I have a lot of love and support. After further inspection from our friend that works with us in the home, Ryan had a total of SEVEN pressure wounds when he came home from the hospital. 🤯 The integrity of his skin is so compromised. It is a pretty dangerous situation.
Also, the site where they drained the abscess in his abdomen is worse than our Nurse anticipated. She feels like he needed a wound VAC but instead was sent home with gauze packed in the wound and I was given zero instructions or supplies on how to care for it. It's been a bit stressful trying to get him everything he needs since it is a holiday week. Just praying things continue to fall into place over the next few days. Ryan needs to have follow ups with various doctors but the trick is how to transport him. He's not able to sit up in his chair and ride in our van and I can't drive because of my leg so it puts us in a bit of a predicament. Still navigating that as well. We still have our Nurse that is privately paid through the end of the year, so I am extremely thankful for that help.

I have had multiple people reach out to me regarding Christmas gifts for my children. I'm very touched that so many people care about them. Instead of messaging ideas to each person individually I allowed them to put a few things on a wish list that I will attach at the bottom. Thank you all again for all of the prayers and support. we are so grateful.

https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/2UDQ2TL88C5MM?ref_=wl_share

11/24/2025

RYAN IS HOME!!!!
Day 95
Praise the Lord Ryan was able to discharge from the hospital and china home today! (Sunday) Our kids were so happy seeing him come down the driveway and the rest of us were pretty emotional as well. (They wanted him to where his "best daddy" Bluey T shirt.)😊
Although no doctor ever called me to review his CT from Friday... He apparently has no other abscesses in his abdomen. There were a few other changes I don't like from previous scans but I was told it's nothing to be concerned about. Please help me pray that's the case and that things will go very smoothly with Ryan being home. So many questions left unanswered and instructions not followed... BUT he's home!
He has changed a bit medically since being home so my main concern is his safety. I'm a bit out of practice with him being in the hospital for three months. Add my broken knee on top of that and it has made things interesting around here today!😂 My sisters have been a huge blessing in helping me today! I'm very thankful for all of you as well. Keep lifting him in prayer!

11/21/2025

Just wanted to give everybody an update. Got a phone call from Ryan's pulmonologist yesterday morning and said that they were able to get him back on his home vent and was doing well without any episodes of desaturation. His oxygen levels are staying at 100%. So the plan was to come home today!!

BUT… Another unexpected surprise took place. Our Nurse that comes in the home was checking on him yesterday and noticed his belly button was almost completely swollen shut, and there was some fluid leaking out. After consulting with the doctor, it turns out Ryan had an abscess in his abdomen from his shunt re-internalization surgery that he had back in October. Apparently it was oozing fluid the day before, and the nurse just chose to put gauze over top of it. 😳 So this could very well account for the elevated white blood count, and fevers that have been unexplained for a while. WHO knows.
I'm very upset that this went unnoticed obviously… But I'm thankful that our friend found it. They drained it bedside last night and currently awaiting a CT to see if there are any other issues in the abdomen. He was also put back on antibiotics in the meantime.

This nicer weather the past couple days has allowed me to get outside with the kids… In a wheelchair, of course. But doing all I can to help keep their mind off their daddy and all the things that are too heavy for their little minds to have to carry. Decorating a little for Christmas and making cookies. Just waiting for daddy to get home.

Thank y'all so much for all of your support, love and prayers. It has been so humbling to see the care packages show up in the mail to support Ryan and our household during this time. We are so grateful and thankful that God always makes provision...sometimes in the most unexpected ways.

11/16/2025

We got to see Ryan yesterday! He was so happy to see the kids! They sang a lot for him.☺️
He had new antibiotics hanging but I wasn't notified as to why and the nurse wasn't sure either. Apparently he has developed some sort of infection. I read in notes that he had another episode of desatting yesterday morning. Seems to happen when they lay him down or roll on his right side.
And bless his heart he has lost so much weight.

Many of you have asked that live in the area or work in the area of the hospital if you could go by and visit Ryan. I asked him about that yesterday and he said he would love visitors. So, those of you that have messaged me and know where he's at, you're more than welcome to go by and keep him company until he gets to come home.

Thank you all for prayers, support and love!!❤️

11/09/2025

Hey everybody! Just wanted to give a quick update. Ryan is still in the hospital. He is not qualified for rehab and that was the final decision made this week. The reason they gave is because he is on a ventilator. He has always been on a ventilator, even when they told me he could go to rehab four weeks ago, so I am extremely frustrated with this misunderstanding. They will allow him to be on a trach collar (basically just oxygen support only at his trach site) during the day and vent support at night, but Ryan has not been on trach collar in over a year. And he has been switched to full ventilator support since being in the hospital. Their recommendation is for him to go to an LTACH (long-term acute care hospital) in Pineville until he's able to go to rehab. I said no and I wanted to bring him home. I can't imagine after such an extremely long stay in the hospital and how weak he is and how much weight he has lost if they could get him back to a trach collar in a decent amount of time and get him into rehab. Or if it's even possible!
BUT Ryan is actually pretty adamant that he wants to try it first before coming home. His hope is after the rehab doctor talked to him is that maybe he can make some progress before returning home. Mainly working on weaning the vent down a little bit while he's there and also get some level of therapy. It won't be as much as he would get an actual rehab, but it would be something. I am not fighting him on this decision, as it is his to technically make if he's sound minded and able to do that, which he seems to be. I will give it a week or so to make sure it will be a good fit for him and then go from there.
I know Ryan and I have a feeling he is trying to make this decision because he knows I am hurt and he wants to give me more time to heal and probably doesn't want to make things harder on me. I love his selfless heart for thinking of me even with all he's gone through…but I don't want him to make the decision based on that. He claims he's not so we will move forward with getting him placed in Pineville.
Unfortunately, there is a pretty long waitlist ahead of him so I don't know how long he's going to have to stay in the hospital to wait for a room to become available. Help me PRAY that the wait is miraculously very short.

My recovery is going well. It's a very slow process but all things considered it's going good. I got my staples out this week. That was a pretty rough experience, but it's over with and now and I can focus on healing. When I go back in December , they will adjust my brace to allow me to bend some and possibly even allow me to bear a little bit of weight in my toes. Like pushing on the floor, not supporting my entire body weight. I wasn't expecting to get to bear any type of weight that quickly so that made me happy to learn. I was told it was a very extensive surgery with all that they had to do to fix my knee so I'm blessed to be healing so well.

Thank you all for the prayers. Thank you for the cards and the gifts that have been sent to our home to help us during this time. We are extremely grateful and humbled at your continued support over the last few years!

Below is a picture that someone visiting Ryan sent me when I told him I loved him over the phone. He signed it back.
(for those of you that may not know, it means I love you in sign language )

10/27/2025

Hey everybody. Just wanted to give a quick update. Ryan ran a high fever of 103 last night. His white blood count is back pretty high again and as usual they’re ordering all kinds of cultures and tests. This is all so mentally and physically exhausting. I cannot imagine how he feels. If I was not hurt, I would find a way to just bring him home tomorrow. We obviously keep running in this hamster wheel and two months later, yes there’s been a lot of treatments and procedures, but still having the same issues. It’s so frustrating. In this new unit he’s in I fear he is getting a far less level of care which is so unfortunate considering I can’t be with him all the time. I did have someone that was able to go down a couple days this week. And our Pastor was able to go visit and FaceTime me with him. I was able to get this picture I’m posting from today. A friend was with him and I sent videos of our kids sending messages of I love youse and come home soon. He’s doing his best to smile. I have no idea how he got cut on his nose or a couple other places, but that’s what happens when I’m not able to be with him. I can’t account for things. It’s such a frustrating and helpless feeling.
I was able to talk with the neurosurgeon a couple days ago, and he told me that the verbiage on the CT scan where the radiologist said they saw a new hemorrhage was really just residual blood from his shunt replacement surgery that was showing up in one of his ventricles and it was so small it was not a problem so they weren’t concerned about an actual hemorrhage. They also said as far as a new baseline, there’s really no way to tell that Except with time. He is so incredibly weak. I’m not sure when we would be able to compare for a new baseline.

Just please pray that all of these symptoms would just miraculously resolve so he can get to rehab for a few days and get a little bit of strength training and then come home. And if they aren’t willing to do rehab, then when the time comes for him to come home that things will work out For him to have adequate care. I just want him HOME. Two months is a lot of time to miss being together as a family when you’re not promised tomorrow.

As for me, I am now four days out from surgery and today has definitely been my best day as far as pain being managed. It has certainly not been fun by any means but I am so thankful for my sister who has taken excellent care of me. My knee-jerk reaction… No pun intended lol… Is to desperately miss my mama and daddy when I’m in such a vulnerable state. But I have a good family and support system that helps in those times.

Thank you all for praying. Many of you have sent food and gift cards for DoorDash, which I am so grateful for as it has kept my children fed while I have transitioned from the couch to the bed over the last four days. 😅
most of all keep praying for Ryan🩵💙

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