08/28/2020
Curious to know how you can tell where you are in labor/how dilated your cervix is without other invasive measures such as frequent vaginal exams ?! 👏🏼🤰🏻
~ Early labor= the birthing person tends to be more chatty, not too phased by contractions. They may be experiencing discomfort in the lower belly, but nothing a little rhythmic movement or changing positions can’t help with. The birthing person is still able to hold a conversation, focus, and go about normal activity.
• early labor is classified as up to 6cm dilated, contractions typically last under 1 minute and are usually more than 4 mins apart.
~ Active labor= the birthing person may feel a small amount of re**al pressure, and contractions are felt all over the belly now, rather than in just one area. They may be fully immersed and consumed by labor at this point- just managing their contractions and resting in between; unable to focus on anything else.
• active labor is classified as 6-8cm dilated, contractions are approx 1 minute and length and only 3-4 minutes apart.
~ Transition= labor is the most intense and challenging at this point.. similar response as active labor. A flushed feeling, as well as nausea/vomiting is common, and contractions are felt all over.. longer, stronger, and closer together. But it is the shortest phase of labor- so you can do it! this is where the phrase “i can’t do this anymore” is common.. so partners and support people need to pull out all the stops! Additional comfort, support, and verbal encouragement may be necessary.
• transition is classified as 9-10 cm dilated, contractions last 1.5-2 minutes and are only 2-3 minutes apart.
**after this, there is a resting/latent phase when full dilation (10cm) happens, and then pushing occurs and your beautiful baby is born! 🤗
~ Helpful tips to get through each stage/phase:
• for laboring person- use rhythmic movements and focused breathing, low moaning sounds rather than high pitched noises or screaming.
• for partners/support people- ask only yes/no questions if necessary, use quiet voices, give direct suggestions/recommendations, provide massage/counterpressure, change environment, have patience, and above all else.. just be there! The littlest things make the biggest difference!