03/30/2025
You can throw supplements, new diets, the best therapies, and the ✨perfect✨ parenting strategies at your child—
But if your internal world is a mess, it won’t matter.
Our children are our mirrors.
The dysfunctional patterns in us, will show up in them. What is unhealed in us, will show up in them.
In their sleep, their behaviors, their attitudes, and their dis-ease.
This is the greatest gift of motherhood—IF you're willing to SEE & DO something about what you see.
If we want our children to heal & our families to flourish, we have to be willing to go first.
Healthy thriving children start with healthy thriving mothers.
When I realized my daughter’s anger & outbursts was a reflection of the anger she witnessed & could feel in me, it was like a ton of bricks landed on my chest.
It would be so much easier for me to say:
“well if my husband did xyz I wouldn’t be so angry”
“I have a right to be angry because of all I’ve been through”
“It’s not THAT bad. All kids hit/throw things/yell”
or to just get angry at her anger.
(I’ve done all of these)
But my child’s rage was demanding me to stop bu****itting myself & to start taking responsibility for my own rage.
Now when she’s going through it, it softens me. I just see me. And I can treat her with the love that my own rage is asking for. WHILE I tend to all the reasons I’ve struggled with anger.
I’ve been gifted so many opportunities to heal & see the dysregulation within our family through my children—relentless diaper rashes, excessive anger, colic, constipation, sleepless nights, play themes, breastfeeding issues like thrush & chronic clogged ducts, and so much more.
Each time, I was granted an opportunity to connect, to see into what my child was experiencing. They set the alarm that something is OFF in the system.
Their nervous systems are intimately connected to our nervous systems until they’re 7 years old. Our internal world is their world.
When I am willing to see and feel into these opportunities, I’m less baffled & frustrated with my kids behavior. I recognize my responsibility & feel capable to take actionable steps—
because it’s not about changing them, it’s about changing me.
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This is for you if:
- you’re within your first 2 years postpartum whether that’s with your 1st or 10th baby
- you know there are dysfunctional patterns in your home & you’re ready to take ownership over the solutions.
- you’re feeling overwhelmed and burnt out by early motherhood
- you started experiencing health issues postpartum (mental or physical) & want an alternative to the allopathic approach.