Xander

Xander A place to help keep Xander Fans updated on Xander's health care status, and needs. We thank everyone for their continuous prayers and support!!

Xander Thomas Wade born 4-13-08

His life inspired us. Xander had half a heart at birth...surgeries, feeding tubes, hospital stays...his body never followed the rules in fact more often than not his body was known for throwing the rulebook right in our faces. He was later diagnosed with Allgrove 4A it is a 1 in a million diagnosis, yep you heard that right. But people don't pour $$ or support into

a disease no one has...so, basically it would mean we had a name of an illness to shoot our nerf darts at, or if you are Xander you build villains out of lego and name them Capt Allgrove and throw legos at him. Xander would go on to become an Hon. Wylie Police Officer (a job he took very seriously!)
He was a friend to everyone he met. I'm not even kidding, he thanked nurses for setting IVs. Always a gentleman he would kiss a lady's hand and escort her to the door. Xander loved BIG. September 5, 2016
Xander having lived his whole life held his sister's hand and as she sang to him of how Good our Father is we walked him to Jesus.....
but life didn't stop there. Grief is far from easy, loving all the way to heaven everyday and carrying him with us are things we are still learning.

Happy Heavenly Birthday Xander Thomas Wade!We celebrated all weekend. The beautiful 8yrs of birthdays together and the p...
04/14/2025

Happy Heavenly Birthday Xander Thomas Wade!
We celebrated all weekend. The beautiful 8yrs of birthdays together and the precious 9 we have celebrated with him in heaven...17 yrs of loving our dance partying, fight song singing sweetheart.

This year we are excited to have Xander's legacy shining bright all around us. Our Wylie Police Assoc is hard at work to bless other students in his honor. We have spoken of him often and much at the Wylie Police banquet and Wylie Education Foundation Gala. No doubt, Xander's laughter and love is all around us.

To our Xander fans please consider donating to the Xander Wade Memorial Scholarship, our hearts desire is to continue to positively impact others as Xander so beautifully impacted us all.
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September 5How in the world did you cram a whole great big life into 8 small years? You took us on grand adventures in h...
09/05/2024

September 5
How in the world did you cram a whole great big life into 8 small years? You took us on grand adventures in hospital rooms and front yards, finding dragons in the clouds. We learned to adjust and adapt from pretending with food cause you couldn't eat to snowball fights in the dining room cause your body couldn't handle the cold.
I watched you be a gentleman as your sister taught you to kiss the hands of ladies, and that you did winning the hearts of many. I watched you beam as you were made an officer, you were so very proud to be apart of our great Wylie PD.

8 whole beautiful years and in a blink it all just stopped....and we would never ever, ever be the same again.

Xander, we miss you every single day. Asher plays with your legos just like you wanted and Eliana is still filling our world with beautiful music as you always admired and said she would. You are right, they are awesome! We speak of you often, lobster stays close by, we see your laughter in the clouds, and the twinkle of your smile in all the blues and greens, and yes I promise there are still dance parties as you requested.

But today...we ache, he grieve, we miss you and we long for the day that we can be together again....today the sky is a little more grey, and everything feels a bit more heavy.
My goodness sweet boy what a blessing you are to us all. Your legacy is tremendous.

Your prayers for our family as we remember and grieve are so appreciated.

💚💙💚💙So very grateful.
08/10/2024

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So very grateful.

Come see us and help us fund Xander's Memorial Scholarship!!! Love you all!
08/09/2024

Come see us and help us fund Xander's Memorial Scholarship!!!
Love you all!

Dear Xander,Sweetheart....not a single day goes by that I don't carry you with me.To know that our WPD officers carry yo...
08/09/2024

Dear Xander,
Sweetheart....not a single day goes by that I don't carry you with me.
To know that our WPD officers carry you too, makes this Momma heart just sing. Isn't that what you used to tell us? We make your heart sing? Well sweet boy your remarkable Wylie Police are helping us create a legacy of love in your honor.
We will keep looking up at the clouds, we will keep seeking this world for heroes as precious as you. We will keep dancing and laughing and carrying you with us for all our lives.
Love,
Momma

Friends and family please support us and this wonderful Memorial Scholarship.

Come see our Wylie Police and us today at Linkes BBQ in Wylie (address in WPD post). They will get there at 2 we will join them just after 4. Come see us....help us remember, help us heal, help us fund this Memorial Scholarship for our Xander.
Love you all.

16 years...happy heavenly birthday Xander.16 years ago we embarked on an incredible journey, and you all came along. Fro...
04/14/2024

16 years...happy heavenly birthday Xander.

16 years ago we embarked on an incredible journey, and you all came along. From Star wars to legos from dance parties, to watching the clouds.

Thank you for walking alongside us.
Today is his birthday....16 years of loving our Xander.

So have a dance party in your kitchen, tell someone you love them MOST, eat a slice of pizza, and see all the dragons in the clouds.
Live your whole lives....live every single minute of it, and hold to hope that God is in all things and you are oh so dearly loved. "To the moon and out!"

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A few weeks ago we had the honor of being invited to attend the Wylie PD banquet. It was a precious night among some of ...
02/05/2024

A few weeks ago we had the honor of being invited to attend the Wylie PD banquet. It was a precious night among some of our all time favorite heroes.
I spoke on the profound positive impact they have on our community and I sincerely hope they each felt dearly loved and appreciated as I fear my words just weren't enough.
They then announced that the Wylie Police Assoc has started the Xander Wade Memorial Scholarship and presented to Eliana as the inaugural recipient.
We were so honored.
Truly Honored.

Our family has been donating for a while now funds to start a scholarship and we are working to move all funds to this Memorial Scholarship in Xander's honor. (More details on this to come)

The grief changes....it ebbs and flows....in the clouds are his giggles, blues and greens, dance parties and oh so many memories. As big moments happen, graduation, birthdays, time just ticking on...but our hearts miss him Every.Single.Day.

He would have loved this night and I am so excited to share it with you.

We love all our Xander Fans....dearly.
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Marsha

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