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David Brinker, Grief Recovery Method Specialist, was interviewed as a special guest on Positive Talk Radio 3/20/25.  You...
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David Brinker, he was trained by the Grief Recovery Institute® in 2019. In 2023, he obtained advanced Grief Recovery training. He is skilled in grief support...

Economic Impact of Grief in the USAGrief has a significant financial impact on the U.S. economy, largely due to lost pro...
25/01/2025

Economic Impact of Grief in the USA
Grief has a significant financial impact on the U.S. economy, largely due to lost productivity, absenteeism, and healthcare costs. Estimates vary, but studies suggest the annual cost of grief to the U.S. economy is between $75 billion and $100 billion.
This includes:
1. Lost Productivity in the Workforce:
· Absenteeism: Grief often leads to extended absences from work as individuals take time off to cope with the loss of a loved one.
· Presenteeism: Even when individuals return to work, their productivity may decrease as they struggle to focus and perform at their usual levels.
· Reduced Career Advancement: Individuals dealing with long-term grief might experience a decrease in job performance, potentially affecting promotions, raises, and career growth.
2. Healthcare Costs
· Physical and Mental Health Issues: Grief can lead to various health problems, including depression, anxiety, heart disease, and immune system disorders, which can result in higher medical expenses.
· Therapy and Counseling: Many people require therapy or counseling to cope with their grief, which adds to mental health treatment costs.
· Medication: Some individuals may need medication for mental health conditions arising from grief, adding to overall healthcare costs.
3. Loss of Income
· Funeral Expenses: The immediate financial burden of covering funeral and burial costs is a significant economic impact of grief. The average cost of a funeral in the U.S. can range from $7,000 to $12,000 or more.
· Long-Term Income Loss: In the case of a wage earner's death, family members may experience long-term financial strain due to the loss of income. Survivors may need to seek additional financial support or change their lifestyle.
4. Impact on Businesses
· Employee Support Costs: Employers may incur costs by providing grief support programs, paid or unpaid leave, and other employee assistance services.
· Decreased Workforce Efficiency: The overall productivity of businesses may decline when multiple employees are grieving, either due to absenteeism or lack of focus.
5. Long-Term Economic Consequences
· Social and Economic Disparities: Grief can disproportionately affect low-income and marginalized communities, who may not have the financial resources to access mental health support or take time off work without severe financial consequences.
· Intergenerational Effects: Grief experienced at an early age, especially when it leads to long-term emotional trauma, can have generational impacts on education, career outcomes, and overall economic stability.
6. Insurance and Legal Costs
· Life Insurance Claims: After a loved one dies, the processing of life insurance claims and the impact on the economic stability of survivors can contribute to the broader financial implications of grief.
· Legal Costs: If there are legal proceedings following a death, such as estate planning or inheritance disputes, these costs can add to the financial burden on the grieving individuals.
7. Increased Risk of Workplace Accidents
· Decreased Focus: Grief can impair concentration and decision-making abilities, which may increase the likelihood of workplace accidents or errors, particularly in high-stakes or physically demanding jobs.
· Liability and Insurance Costs: Companies might face higher workers' compensation claims and liability insurance premiums if workplace accidents increase due to employees working through grief.
8. Reduced Consumer Spending
· Spending Cuts: Grieving individuals may alter their spending habits, potentially cutting back on discretionary purchases, dining out, entertainment, and travel as they focus on immediate family needs or long-term emotional recovery.
· Impact on Retailers and Service Providers: This reduction in spending can be felt across various sectors, including retail, entertainment, tourism, and services, potentially slowing economic growth in those areas.
9. Increased Dependency on Public Assistance
· Government Support Programs: Individuals facing severe financial hardship due to grief may turn to public assistance programs, including unemployment benefits, food assistance (e.g., SNAP), and welfare, increasing demand on these social safety nets.
· Long-Term Dependency: In some cases, prolonged grief can lead to a longer-term inability to reenter the workforce, leading to continued reliance on government programs for support.
10. Impact on Education and Academic Performance
· Grief and School Performance: Students experiencing grief may struggle with academic achievement, leading to lower graduation rates, poor test scores, and increased dropout rates. This can indirectly impact future earnings and productivity for individuals and society as a whole.
· Educational Support Costs: Schools may need to provide additional mental health and grief counseling services, which can increase costs for educational institutions and taxpayers.
11. Impact on Family and Community Support Systems
· Caregiving Burdens: Grieving individuals may also take on caregiving roles for other family members, especially elderly parents or children, leading to further economic strain due to lost wages, added expenses for caregiving, and potentially increased healthcare needs.
· Community Resources: Grief often places additional pressure on community organizations and charitable entities that provide emotional and financial support, such as food banks, grief counseling centers, and housing assistance.
12. Mental Health Care Strain
· Mental Health System Overload: Grief can contribute to a larger burden on the mental health system, with more individuals seeking counseling, therapy, and psychiatric treatment, which can strain both public and private healthcare systems.
· Psychiatric Inpatient Care: In cases of severe or complicated grief, individuals may require inpatient psychiatric care, which significantly raises healthcare costs.
13. Impact on Life Insurance and End-of-Life Services Industry
· Life Insurance Market: As grief typically follows the death of a family member or loved one, the life insurance market can see increased claims and payouts. This can affect both premiums and payouts for life insurers.
· Funeral Industry: Grief drives demand for funeral and memorial services, which is a significant part of the economy. The funeral industry generates billions annually, with families spending on average $7,000 to $12,000 on services.
14. Increased Financial Strain for Entrepreneurs and Small Business Owners
· Business Disruption: For small business owners or entrepreneurs, the death of a loved one may result in a temporary shutdown or operational disruptions as they deal with their grief, leading to lost revenue and increased stress.
· Increased Debt: Business owners may take on additional debt to manage the emotional and financial costs of grief, which can affect their long-term financial stability.
15. Complicated Bereavement Policies and Legal Costs
· Bereavement Leave Costs: Employers may need to pay for bereavement leave or extend paid time off for grieving employees. Some organizations may experience financial challenges if employees require extended time off or if employees who are mourning need to take unpaid leave.
· Legal Disputes: The emotional and financial toll of grief can sometimes result in legal disputes related to inheritance, estate management, or other post-death proceedings. Legal costs can rise as families navigate the complexities of wills, probate courts, and potential litigation.
16. Social Stigma and Reduced Social Capital
· Social Isolation: Grieving individuals may experience social isolation, which can affect their social capital and reduce opportunities for networking, collaboration, and business development.
· Stigma of Grief: In some cases, grief can carry a social stigma, especially in professional settings where showing emotion or taking time off might be perceived negatively, further reducing the economic potential of individuals.
17. Impact on Housing Markets
· Decline in Property Sales or Purchases: Following a death, especially in the case of the primary wage earner, families may need to sell their homes, impacting the real estate market. This can lead to lower property values, additional financial stress, and potential losses on home sales.
· Shift in Housing Demand: Grief-induced life changes can prompt people to relocate, which might affect housing demand in specific regions, particularly in terms of downsizing or moving in with extended family members.
18. Economic Burden of Long-Term Grief
· Chronic Illness and Disability: Prolonged grief can lead to long-term health consequences, including chronic illnesses, which can increase healthcare and disability-related expenses.
· Reduced Life Satisfaction: Individuals who experience persistent or complicated grief may have lower life satisfaction and diminished long-term economic opportunities due to ongoing mental and emotional distress.
19. Loss of Human Capital and Innovation
· Decreased Creativity and Innovation: Grief can stifle creativity and innovative thinking, which may affect industries that rely on human capital for new ideas, technological advancements, and problem-solving.
· Decreased Workforce Mobility: Grieving employees may be less likely to seek out new job opportunities, reducing workforce mobility and overall labor market dynamism.
20. Economic Inequality and Grief
· Disproportionate Impact on Low-Income Families: Low-income families often lack the financial cushion to take time off work or afford mental health services, exacerbating the economic effects of grief. This inequality can create a cycle of financial instability that is difficult to break.
· Long-Term Societal Costs: The cumulative effects of grief on marginalized or economically disadvantaged populations can contribute to wider social and economic inequalities over time, affecting education, employment, and overall economic opportunity.
Conclusion:
Grief, while a deeply personal and emotional experience, has far-reaching economic consequences across multiple levels of society. The costs are not only borne by individuals but also by businesses, healthcare systems, and governmental resources. Understanding these impacts can help policymakers, employers, and communities better support grieving individuals and mitigate the broader economic repercussions.

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FACTS ABOUT GRIEF· Grief is about LOSS, not death alone: Grief can follow any significant change in a familiar pattern i...
06/01/2025

FACTS ABOUT GRIEF
· Grief is about LOSS, not death alone: Grief can follow any significant change in a familiar pattern in life.
· Grief is a normal response: Grief is a natural response to loss, and it's not a disease. One loss usually triggers a whole lot more, because unresolved grief is cumulative.
· Grief is personal: Grief is a very personal experience, and the worst grief is your own.
· Grief is unpredictable: Grief can cause a wide range of feelings and reactions, not just sadness and crying.
· Grief can be hard work: Grief can take a toll on your physical and emotional health, and it can require more energy than you expect.
· Grief doesn’t come in neat, consecutive stages
· Grief can last a long time: If unaddressed, the emotional pain of loss will come and go and will show up in unexpected relationships and in unpredictable ways.
· Grief changes you, it can disrupt your physical health: Grief can make it difficult to sleep, eat, or think clearly.
· Grief can lead to serious disorders: Grief can sometimes lead to anxiety and depression, and if this happens, you should consider counseling or therapy.
· Grief is different from mourning: Grief is the internal experience of loss, while mourning is the outward expression of grief.
· Mourning can include: Mourning can include religious traditions, gathering with friends and family, or celebrating memories.

The depth of emotional pain caused by significant loss is often disruptive in unexpected ways. But grief does not need to be an unending life experience. The Grief Recovery Method ® provides a proven approach that uses a step-by-step plan of healing and recovery. I am a Grief Recovery Specialist and want to help you complete your journey of recovery. -David Brinker 717 814 9704

Here is an opportunity to heal your heart which is coming soon in 2025.I am a certified Grief Recovery Method Specialist...
18/12/2024

Here is an opportunity to heal your heart which is coming soon in 2025.

I am a certified Grief Recovery Method Specialist®. Starting on January 6th, I will be teaching 8 weekly online classes, where you can learn the proven steps to heal your heart and have a better emotional life. This proven program has helped so many people who have faced many kinds of loss.

Have you ever experienced a significant change in the familiar pattern of your life? If you have then there has likely been a loss involved. It may have been a change in finances, health, employment, living arrangements. It may have been a loss of safety, important roles, or relationships changing. You may have experienced the emotional turmoil that comes with the death of a loved one. You may even have unresolved feelings toward a person in your past who was a “less than loved one.”

No matter what the specific kind of loss, I want to help you experience recovery from the lingering pain that remains a troubling reality in your heart.

The sessions will be held using the proven Grief Recovery Method ®. We will meet online, via Zoom, Mondays from 2-4:00 pm (EST). You will need a computer with a good internet connection. So, I am inviting you to reply to this message and let me know of your interest!

Please email me with a message indicating your interest in this program. If you like, you can also call me at 717 814 9704 so I can answer your questions. Please read the enclosed brochure for more information. This program is a fee-based service.

Sincerely,
David Brinker
Grief Recovery Specialist

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FIVE NEEDS OF THOSE WHO MOURNThe death of someone we love changes our lives forever. We enter a season of grief that mar...
18/12/2024

FIVE NEEDS OF THOSE WHO MOURN

The death of someone we love changes our lives forever. We enter a season of grief that marks the change from the “before” to the “after.” It is almost always an emotionally painful journey.

This journey requires mourning. Grief is what you think and feel on the inside after someone you love dies. Mourning is the outward expression of those thoughts and feelings. To mourn is to be an active participant in our grief journey. We all grieve when some one we love dies, but if we are to heal, we must also mourn.

Mourning isn’t complete if we think it only has to do with our tears. Mourning involves discovering, naming, expressing and taking action to healing the pain of emotions we continue to feel after a relationship ends because of death.

Most of us have never been taught how to do this. It is no surprise that we can’t complete what we have never learned. The power of the Grief Recovery Method ® is that teaches you, step by step, a proven way to heal your heartache--to enter into and complete your mourning.

There are several signposts that indicate the needs of grievers. These are areas where we can make progress in the journey of healing the emotional pain of grief.

1. ACKNOWLEDGE THE REALITY OF THE DEATH.
This first need of mourning involves gently discovering the scope of the emotions related to death. This involved looking honestly at our losses. Most of us want to get over this pain as soon as possible, we think we can rush through this and get to healing quickly. This rush to find better feelings, without discovering the impact of our loss, never moves us toward healing. It only yields buried feelings that will continue to trouble us in unexpected ways in the future.

The class sessions, where you learn the Grief Recovery Method ®, unfold at a measured pace and provide a series of small steps, which grievers can take to look at the scope of significant experiences of loss. The classes create a supportive atmosphere where it is safe to discover what feelings are attached to these personal losses and provide practical ways to express the impact these have had on our life.

2. BE EMOTIONALLY HONEST ABOUT THE PAIN OF OUR LOSS.
This need of mourning requires us to be emotionally honest about the pain of our loss – something we naturally don’t want to do. It is easier to avoid, repress, or try to dull the pain of our grief than it is to confront it. Facing this heartache with emotional honesty is crucial to healing and moving toward a better emotional life. Most of us just can’t complete this task on our own. We need a safe place, a “space,” where we are treated with respect, genuine care, and dignity without fear of judgment, criticism, comparison, or analysis.

Since each leader of a Grief Recovery Method ® program is trained, certified and licensed by the Grief Recovery Institute® participants experience respect, empathy, integrity, and skill. Each week a proven approach is followed so each person can practice growing emotional honesty and experience healing.

3. REMEMBER THE PERSON WHO DIED.
When someone we love dies, their physical presence is gone. The physical part of the relationship has ended. What kind of relationship continues? You have a relationship of memory. Death can have a “filtering” effect on our memories. Death can cause us to only remember certain aspect of our past relationship. When someone is well loved, we might tend to only remember positive, virtuous, uplifting things about our beloved. If someone was “less than fully loved”, we might tend to remember the things that bothered us, challenged our inner peace, or the times of conflict. The work of remembering as we grieve should capture all the aspects of being in a relationship with a human being.

We can’t complete what we haven’t been taught. The Grief Recovery program of 8 weekly classes will coach participants in practical “actions-steps” to remember and name the emotions attached to all aspects of a relationship we have experienced.

4. DEVELOP A NEW IDENTITY.
Part of the sense of who we are comes from the relationships you have with other people. When someone with whom you have a significant relationship dies, the way you see yourself naturally changes. Going from being a “wife” or “husband” to a “widow” or “widower” expresses this. Or you experience the change of going from being a “parent” to a “bereaved parent.” In this uncertain time we ask, “Who am I now?” We might feel we don’t know who we are without the familiar connect to the person who has died. This can be so disorienting. Some people feel heightened dependence, others may experience feelings of helplessness, frustration, inadequacy, or fear.

Alternatively, we may see our self as being able to surmount any challenge. We want to ultimately discover some positive aspect to the change in identity. The desire can be to face the death of a loved one and want to develop a more caring, kind, and sensitive response to others or to develop renewed confidence. But we may not know how to arrive there.

Many people know they feel something, but they may struggle to name what it is. Or they may not know how to express these emotions is a way that leads to healing. The Grief Recovery program gives participants proven “tools” to discover, name, express and heal from unresolved emotions. Completing this journey opens the path to the future without the burden of lingering pain from the past.

5. RECEIVE SUPPORT FROM OTHERS.
If we like being a self-sufficient person who handles everything alone, it can be hard to seek support. Even if we see the need for the support of others, it can be hard to find someone who really knows how to offer the kind of care that is truly helpful. People may mean well but that doesn’t mean they are helpful as we grieve our loss. Hearing advice like, “Just keep your chin up.” “Isn’t it time you moved on? “or “Keep busy” hurts a person in grief.

Seeking support is not a weakness. Reaching out for support reflects strength. But the quality and quantity of understanding and support you get during your grief journey will have a major influence on your capacity to heal.

Participants in the Grief Recovery program learn about the myths many people use to try to cope with the pain of grief. We learn about what helps and what doesn’t help the pain of loss. We learn to give and receive support, empathy, care, respect and above all a compassionate listening ear. We practice being “a heart with ears for each other.”

BE RECONCILED TO LOSS
Recovering from painful loss or grief needs to be understood. When we experience grief, life will never go back to what it once was. The loss is real, people and experiences can’t be replaced like the changing of a light bulb. People do not simply “get over” grief.
What does it mean to recover or resolve your grief? There is no singular moment when all the feelings of grief are finalized. In this sense the journey of living with the results of loss will never end. What can change is this... When we complete our mourning, the emotional pain no longer defines our identity, derails our life, or determines our destiny. To compete our grieving means we can remember all aspects of a relationship that has ended—the good and the not-so-good with emotional honesty.

From time to time, we may still feel sad, we will still miss aspects of what we have lost. But a renewed sense of meaning and purpose replaces the sharp, ever-present pain of grief.

The intense pangs of grief will become less frequent. Hope and vision for the next-steps in life emerge as you are able to make commitments to the future. Recovery from the pain of grief does not mean a loved one is forgotten, she or he will always be held dear. When we are reconciled to our loss, healing means your life can and will move forward.

For over 40 years, the Grief Recovery Method® has helped people around the world recover from the emotional pain of loss. It answers the needs of grievers by providing a step-by-step process that leads to a better life by competing the necessary aspects of mourning.

"I look forward to hearing from you."
David Brinker, Grief Recovery Specialist 717 814 9704

Because grief is painful, a normal response is to avoid this pain.The mind may be viewed as a fortress and refuge as we ...
18/12/2024

Because grief is painful, a normal response is to avoid this pain.

The mind may be viewed as a fortress and refuge as we seek to avoid the reality of our heartache.

Sadly, thoughts and advice don’t heal the heart.

The correct actions do.

Most of us have not been taught how to heal our heartache. We can't do what we do not know.

As a certified Grief Recovery Method Specialist, I would like the opportunity to walk beside you as I teach you how to heal your heart.

David Brinker, Grief Recovery Specialist 717 814 9704

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