20/09/2023
Anxiety as a Constant Companion
An astounding 84% of autistic children experience some level of 'impairing anxiety' (White et al., 2009), shedding light on the deep reality faced by autistic individuals. Richard Maguire's quote, "I call anxiety the permanent emotional state for autistic people… anxiety is my constant companion. Much of my life and strength have been used up on anxiety," offers a profound glimpse into the unique challenges faced by autistic people (Attwood, Evans and Lesko 2014, page 25). In just a few words, Maguire encapsulates the pervasive nature of anxiety in the lives of many autistic individuals and underscores the need for greater understanding and support.
Autism represents a unique way of thinking, perceiving, and navigating the world. While each autistic person's experiences are unique, anxiety is a common thread that often runs through their lives. Maguire's choice of words – "permanent emotional state" and "constant companion" – is particularly evocative in conveying the relentless nature of anxiety in the lives of autistic individuals.
Permanence of Anxiety:
By describing anxiety as a "permanent emotional state," Maguire sheds light on the enduring nature of anxiety in the lives of autistic individuals. Unlike a fleeting emotion that comes and goes, anxiety can be an ever-present force that colours one's daily experiences, interactions, and decisions. This long-lasting anxiety can result from the challenges and uncertainties that many autistic individuals face in a world that often struggles to accommodate their needs and differences.
Constant Companion:
The term "constant companion" suggests that anxiety is not merely an occasional challenge but an unrelenting presence. It shadows every step, complicating even the most routine activities and interactions. The consistent presence of anxiety can be emotionally and physically exhausting, requiring immense strength to navigate daily life.
Life and Strength Drained by Anxiety:
Maguire's quote also highlights how the pervasive nature of anxiety can deplete an individual's energy and resources. Autistic individuals often expend significant mental and emotional effort to manage their anxiety, leaving them with fewer reserves for other aspects of life. This ongoing struggle can lead to exhaustion and burnout, making it all the more crucial to provide adequate support and understanding.
In conclusion, Richard Maguire's quote reminds us of the emotional landscape that autistic individuals navigate, where anxiety often takes centre stage. Understanding this perspective is essential to creating a world where autistic individuals can thrive, unburdened by the weight of anxiety, and where their unique strengths and talents can shine.
References:
Attwood, T., Evans C., and Lesko A. (2014) Been There. Done That. Try This! London, Jessica Kingsley Publishers.
White, S. W., Oswald, D., Ollendick, T., & Scahill, L. (2009). Anxiety in children and adolescents with autism spectrum disorders. Clinical psychology review, 29(3), 216–229. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.cpr.2009.01.003
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