21/05/2021
Are You a Perfectionist?
To help you assess your level of perfectionism, here are some traits of a perfectionist:
⚠️There is no room for mistakes. Whenever you see an error, you’re the first to jump on it and correct it.
⚠️You have an all-or-nothing approach. It’s either you do everything well, or you don’t do it at all.
⚠️You are extremely hard on yourself. Whenever something goes wrong, you become really hard on yourself.
⚠️You have extremely high standards. Whatever you set your mind to do, you will have high targets. Sometimes, these targets stress you endlessly. At one point, you become held back by these standards as you procrastinate and stop working on your goals out of fear that you can’t reach them.
⚠️Success is never enough. Whatever you do, there’s always a greater height to aim for.
⚠️You procrastinate just to do something at the “right” moment.
⚠️You are constantly waiting for the “right” moment to work on your goals. You only want to start when you are “ready” so as to deliver your best quality of work. However, this state of “readiness” never seems to come sometimes. Sometimes, it never comes as you perpetually wait just to get something done.
⚠️You constantly spot mistakes when others don’t see any. While this can simply mean that you’re just very detail-oriented, perfectionists often spot mistakes, issues, from a mile away. Sometimes these mistakes are real. Sometimes they seem self-imagined.
⚠️You often spend copious amounts of time just to perfect something. Perfection is the end goal. It’s not uncommon for you to sacrifice your sleep, personal time, and well-being, just to bring your work to the highest level. To you, it is all part of achieving your goal.
Can you relate with any of the traits above?
If so check out “the gift of imperfection” by - a fantastic read 😍 ( from a self confessed imperfect perfectionist 😉)