Amie & Bev

25/09/2025

In today’s fast-paced culture, many of us scroll through endless 30–90 second video clips without realizing the toll it takes on our bodies and minds. Each

18/09/2025

Life has a funny way of testing us. Challenges often show up uninvited, leaving us with a choice either to complain about what’s wrong, or explore what else m

11/09/2025

In relationships, there’s a subtle yet powerful distinction between being a fixer and being a hero. At first glance, both roles look like helping. But the ene

04/09/2025

Grief and heavy emotions often come with the urge to escape by filling the void with distractions, busyness, or numbing habits. While those temporary fixes migh

28/08/2025

When life feels overwhelming or even beautifully abundant, we often forget one simple truth: we are never alone. Spirit, whether you connect through God, Jesus,

21/08/2025

Tea Time w/Amie & Bev Topic: Another Phase of Transformation

Transformation is rarely a neat, linear path. Often, before the beauty of change can take shape, we find ourselves in the messy middle, lost, stuck, and unsure of what’s next. It’s like the butterfly still inside the cocoon, sensing that something new is stirring but not yet able to see the wings forming. This stage can feel frustrating or even hopeless, but it’s actually a sacred part of the journey.

In these moments, trust becomes our greatest ally. Just as the butterfly leans into the process, we too must lean into our own becoming. The discomfort of not knowing is the soil where confidence takes root. Each small act of courage, whether it’s making a new choice, shifting an old pattern, or simply holding faith, helps us stretch into the fullness of who we are becoming.

Transformation doesn’t ask for perfection; it asks for belief in possibilities. When we trust that our wings are forming even when we can’t see them, we discover the freedom to fly. So, if you feel uncertain or in-between, know this: you are not stuck. You are evolving. The cocoon is only temporary and the sky is waiting.

May this conversation be beneficial to your life journey. Many blessings!

Transformation is rarely a neat, linear path. Often, before the beauty of change can take shape, we find ourselves in the messy middle, lost, stuck, and unsure

14/08/2025

Tea Time w/Amie & Bev
Topic: Dancing Through the Echoes of Abandonment

When abandonment or rejection is woven into the earliest chapters of life, whether through adoption, an absent parent, or a parent choosing to step away, it leaves an invisible thread running through the heart. That thread often tangles into a lifelong quest to be “good enough,” to prove worthiness in every friendship, relationship, or connection.

The child who grows into an adult may find themselves over-giving, clinging, or reading silence as rejection. They may chase love like its oxygen, fearing that if they stop proving themselves, the people they care about will walk away. It’s exhausting to live in constant audition mode, always performing for approval.

Somewhere between the longing and the ache, there’s a spark. The realization that you don’t have to be perfect, or needed, to be worthy of love. You can release the script that was handed to you before you could speak and write your own story.

So, you choose to dance. You choose to sing. Not because the pain never happened, but because it doesn’t own you anymore. The music is yours now. Embrace yourself knowing you are enough exactly as you are.

May this conversation be beneficial to your life journey. Many blessings!

When abandonment or rejection is woven into the earliest chapters of life, whether through adoption, an absent parent, or a parent choosing to step away, it lea

07/08/2025

It’s easy to fall into the belief that someone should just know what we need, want, or feel, especially if they’ve been in our lives for years. We assume hi

31/07/2025

People are mirrors, whether we like the reflection or not. Every encounter offers a glimpse into ourselves, revealing both the brilliance we forget we hold and

24/07/2025

You can’t give from an empty cup and you sure as heck can’t give unconditional love from a heart full of judgment. We only love others as deeply as we love

17/07/2025

We live in a world where "fixing" has become a default response to ourselves and others. But here's the truth, you're not broken. Maybe you're tired, stretched

10/07/2025

It’s easy to observe the lives of others, especially those we love, and think, “If they’d just do it this way…” Whether it’s watching your adult kid