08/03/2023
😥 Parent Perfectionism is the real cause of child sleep problems.
👉🏻 Tell me in the comments if you agree or disagree
🤱🏽 Before becoming a mom, I would have thought that was crazy…
But now, I see this time and time again.
💤 We blame our child’s sleep for every problem we have, and we think that by “fixing it” everything will get better.
🐥 So… at 3 months old, we get onto the sleep-training train; you know because there is a supposed sensitive period for babies to learn to sleep (spoiler, completely untrue).
⏰ That’s what I did, tik tok tik tok, it’s time, I told my husband one day, while on the verge of a panic attack “we will mess her up if we don’t do something RIGHT NOW”.
🧠 And no, my logic or scientific brain was clearly absent.
Only the brainwashed part of my brain remained.
😳 So my husband looks at me and simply says “Laura, everything is going fine”.
That right there, snapped me out of all that BS, and I looked at my daughter and I saw that he was right. Everything was going fine.
💫 From then, I stopped listening to the part of my brain telling me “your daughter should” and I started watching MY BABY, learning from her, and providing her with the unique care that she needed.
🛌 I was still a perfectionist, let’s not kid ourselves, but I improved, and I keep improving every day.
👋🏻 Tell me about you, do you relate to my story? Do you struggle not looking around to see how your baby “should” be doing?
🦸🏻♀️🦸🏿♀️🦸🏽 Take care supermom
👩🏻🎓 Dr. Laura Gainche Ph.D.