
04/08/2025
🌿 The Invisible Backpack: Understanding Mental Load 🌿
Everyone in a household might be carrying a backpack. At a glance, they all look the same — but some are quietly heavier.
One person may be carrying not just tasks, but the responsibility of remembering them:
🧠 Appointments, groceries, school events, feelings, holiday planning, what’s running low, and what’s coming next.
That’s the mental load — the invisible, ongoing work of managing life behind the scenes.
It’s not always about who does the chores — it’s who tracks, plans, and worries about them.
If your partner, friend, or loved one seems overwhelmed, ask:
“Can I help carry the backpack — not just the bags?”
💬 Let’s talk more openly about the unseen labor that keeps everything running.