17/01/2022
My name is Vladi and I've wanted to be a Coach ever since I can remember. I've always known that I have a gift for helping people - for some reason they're always drawn to ask me for advice and I can always see where they're getting stuck.
And recently I've been going through a major spiritual shift where I've been really trying to tune into what I have to give to the world, and while I really know I have this gift, in my head I always just kept doubting myself and running into the same voice telling me, "Who am I to coach anyone? What gives me the right?"
So like most of us "intuitives", I just kept putting the idea aside because I really just didn't feel confident enough to do it... not to mention not having a clue about even how to get started. So I kept waking up every morning and going into work, but inside I couldn't stand it anymore, it felt like I was exploding from the inside every time I had to go in and sit at that desk!
Now I believe we live in a magnetic universe - I believe we all have a purpose. And that even if we try and avoid our purpose, either because we're afraid or because we doubt ourselves, at some point things start to align and our purpose calls us back. And so a few months ago that's exactly what happened to me...
I woke up feeling really, really heavy. I felt scared and totally out of alignment - like I was having panic attack at the thought of just going into work. So instead I just listened and decided to called in sick and spend the morning meditating. And during that meditation something really shifted... for the first time in a loooong time I felt really really clear about what I needed to do. I could just feel than now was my time to do this - that it was time for me to start showing up and helping people!
And I think what really caused that shift was, instead of focusing on myself, instead of focusing on MY dream to become a coach, like I always have, instead I started seeing all the people who are struggling, all the people who I knew I could help and that needed my support. I saw their faces, and how much their lives would change if they got the support they were looking for - the ripple effect it would have on the people close to them, if suddenly they started having breakthroughs and were living their best lives.
Suddenly I realized that it wasn't even about me anymore, and that by NOT stepping into coaching I was actually being SELFISH, because I was puttng MY fear above what the universe was calling me to do, and that other people were struggling because I wasn't stepping up to the plate.
And even though I've known this is my path for a long time, that morning, for the first time, all of a sudden I wasn't afraid anymore - I wasn't stressed about it. I just opened my eyes and came on here and started looking for resources - I just got to work!
And do you know that feeling, like when you're really in flow, and it just feels like you're being guided? Like that old saying, "when you make a decision, the universe conspires for your success"? Well that's exactly what it felt like was happening - that I just made a decision that I was going to step into my calling as a Coach, but I didn't know what that journey would look like, and how I was going to do it. I just let that clarity guide me, and do you know what happened next...?
I came on here, and the first things I saw, the first thing that found me was a training on exactly how to break through your fear and start coaching by this guy David Bederman (I put a link at the bottom of this.) And out of all the "gurus" out there today talking about coaching, I have to say that something about David's energy really resonated with me. Like in that moment his post showed up, I just felt my intuition calling me saying "this is it - this is the one!"
And honestly, I'm so glad that I listened because since that day, literally everything has changed for me.
The first thing I'll say is that I watched the whole thing, from beginning to end because he laid it all out so clearly. Like exactly what steps to take to get started, what questions to ask, and even how to structure a coaching session. And having that structure actually gave me so much confidence, because it was one of the biggest things I think I was missing.
Anyways, like I said, it was so different than any of the other stuff I've seen on coaching and I wanted to share because I know there are so many others like me here who have this gift, who are called to help people - but are just going around in circles feeling stuck because they don't know how to get started. I was in that place for so long and it really sucks.
Seriously, this training was the most helpful thing I've seen - it got me unstuck, gave me the jumpstart into coaching that I needed, and I've never looked back.
Everything happens for a reason and if you've been feeling called to be a coach then maybe this is your sign.
I really think coaching can change the world - it's definitely changed my life. Check it out, and if it helps you too, then I'm glad 🙂 ❤️
https://freedomcoachingschool.com/new-coach/
https://freedomcoachingschool.com/new-coach/
Vladi
P.S At the end I think there's also an option to book a free call with him, which I would totally recommend - I ended up working with David as my Coach, and I'm SO grateful that I did🙏).