29/07/2025
The People-Pleasing Trap: 3 Reasons Empaths Must Quit the Performative Kindness Act
Let’s be real:
Most empaths are people-pleasers.
We say yes when we want to say "hell no."
We show up, over give, and then collapse in a cloud of resentment and gluten-free tears.
On the surface, being kind and generous seems noble.
But underneath?
It’s often a trauma response in a spiritual costume.
Here are 3 reasons why people-pleasing is secretly wrecking you:
𝟭. 𝗬𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗻𝗲𝗲𝗱𝘀 𝗴𝗼 𝘂𝗻𝗺𝗲𝘁.
When your default setting is self-sacrifice, your body, spirit, and sanity start sending warning signs — fatigue, anxiety, resentment, binge-scrolling TikTok at 2am.
👉 Pro tip: Peace, time, and energy are currencies. Don’t bankrupt yourself trying to buy approval.
𝟮. 𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗹𝗼𝘄𝗲𝗿 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝘀𝗼𝗰𝗶𝗮𝗹 𝘀𝘁𝗮𝘁𝘂𝘀.
Unpopular truth: society (and energetic laws) don’t reward overgiving — they exploit it.
If you constantly signal that your worth is low, the world mirrors that back.
Not because it’s cruel… but because it’s calibrated to your signal.
🧲 Raise your self-worth, raise your reality. LOA reality.
𝟯. 𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗲𝗻𝗱 𝘂𝗽 𝗲𝘅𝗵𝗮𝘂𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗱 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗿𝗲𝘀𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗳𝘂𝗹.
If you give and give to the wrong people, you'll eventually snap.
Maybe not out loud… but inside you’re silently flipping tables in your mind.
That simmering bitterness? It’s poison.
You either deal with it consciously or it leaks out in weird passive-aggressive texts and cold shoulders.
𝙏𝙝𝙚 𝙨𝙤𝙡𝙪𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣?
🔥 Start healing the root:
Childhood conditioning
Self-worth wounds
The belief that love = proving yourself
When I did this work myself…
I stopped being a pushover.
I reclaimed my energy.
I became powerful AF — without becoming a jerk.
And that’s what we teach inside our system:
How to shift the energy, heal the core wounds, and finally live as your authentic, empowered self — not the overextended version of you trying to keep the peace with everyone else.
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