16/05/2025
28mo of my favorite thing as a mom-breastfeeding.
I don’t share this post to brag but rather share some of the advice I recieved that helped me get through it all. If it helps one person then it’s worth the share! (Long post ahead but worth the read)
#1 give yourself 6 weeks to figure it out. That’s right. 6 whole weeks. Higher a IBCLC to help with latch. If after that it still hasn’t clicked then find a solution that works best for the family 😘
#2 Bodywork: chiropractic care for babies is pure gold. They go through so much during birth that releasing tension is key and having them be more comfortable nursing. This also helps with bowel movements and sleep! (Who doesn’t want that?)
#3 Smaller and pre- mature babies will struggle with latch/sleepiness. I went into labor at 38wks and 3days. She was 7lbs 3oz. She really struggled initially. She was tired-she had just gone through a traumatic birth. Nursing is a lot for them in the early days. Feel free to pump and bottle feed until baby has a bit more energy to keep working in the latch.
#4 Don’t make it a big deal. Do your best to not stress(I know easier said than done). But the more you just tell yourself “we got this” the more likely you are to figure it out together.
#5 TONGUE AND LIP TIES ARE AN ACTUALLY THING- regardless of what you have heard tongue and lip ties greatly affect tongue mobility and the ability of a baby to excrete milk from the breast. Most pediatricians and IBCLCS are not trained in TOTS(tethered oral tissue syndrome). Therefore, finding a privdier that knows what the heck they are talking about is key. If you have questions please reach out and I can help find a provider that aligns with your concerns.( PS don’t have it taken care of at the hospital)
#6 You can do both(most of the time) you can pump at work and BF at home. My daughter didn’t struggle with any ni**le confusion and coming home to BF was my favorite part of the day.
#7 Ni**le pain of any sort is not normal. You can always pump and feed from a bottle while continuing to work in latch.
#8 Pumping: fl**ge size matters and pumping is breastfeeding! You are strong and are providing liquid gold for your child. I bow to you for pumping! You are the real MVP.
#9 Breastfeeding into toddlerhood is normal! t is also very beneficial from a craniofacial development standpoint. The pressure of a strong tongue to express milk requires pressing the breast against the palate. In doing so this helps the palate grow wider and forward rather than narrow and up. Therefore the breast and strong, well trained tongues are natures best palatal expander! The mouth is the front of the airway and has a big impact on how we grow and thrive
#10 YOU ARE ENOUGH: wheather breastfeeding worked out or it didn’t you are enough! You nurtured and loved your baby through the long nights and now you get to watch them learn, run away from you when called, and never listen to a word that comes out of your mouth. (Ok maybe this is just my independent toddler) but for real you are a ROCKSTAR MOM!
If you read this whole post, thank you. If you are struggling please reach out! I can help answer questions, be a listening ear, and help find healthcare providers that best align with your needs.
Much love,
Kat
Owner of Align myofunctional therpay