27/05/2021
Last night I shared the below on and in 22 hours it has been viewed 12,000 times and shared in 8 countries. This has struck a nerve and I'm thrilled to spread this message!
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I married my abuser 20 years ago. I was young, loved him, and loved the idea of marriage. His abuse occurred before our marriage and it confused me so much that ignoring it and moving on became a coping mechanism.
Once married, his abuse shattered our honeymoon and followed us into our new home as we started our marriage. It continued for 2 years.
I prayed to at work asking for clarity about my situation. My husband tracked my coming and going so seeking outside help would have been difficult. I didn't even confide with my friends or family.
One morning at the photocopier, I felt a hard tug on my ponytail which quickly pulled my face up and affixed my eyes on a flier my director Ken Barnwell posted stating the Company offered private inhouse counseling with a licensed therapist during Company hours. I looked behind me and in seeing no one standing there, knew God was telling me what I needed to do.
Meeting with the in my office building while at work helped me realize my truth, make decisions, and find tools to help me exit my marriage as safely as possible. I have no doubt that the program saved my life.
I urge companies to consider adding this offering for their employees. You never know what private battles one is fighting 🙏
