01/11/2021
Let’s not get selfishness confused with ego, greed, self-centeredness, vanity, or lack of empathy. Putting oneself & the truth one holds first, is the very first step in healing. If all we did was walk around people pleasing all day, putting others before us, we’d be a walking disaster & quite worthless to the tribe.
Here are some rules to consider:
1) We are only in control of ourselves. We can put others first all day long, but there’s no guarantee that will benefit them, bc we ultimately cannot control the outcome of that deed.
2) If you really want to make a quantum impact in the world, you’ll put your needs, healing & all, as número uno. Because we are literally all connected, when I heal myself, I heal my family, friends, as well as the entire universe!
3) If you’re not healthy, healed, and at the top of your game, you’re doing a disservice to the rest of the tribe. Being unhealed brings the rest of us down. We need you whole!!
4) If I don’t know how to completely & truly love myself, my love for you will be born out of my lack of self-love. Basically, you’ll be inheriting the job of loving me, bc I don’t know how to do it myself. Sound dysfunctional?
5) Finally, once we’ve cleared our trauma, emotional addictions, and healed ourselves, imagine the service you can now bring forth in the world. You’ll be the greatest gift to your family, friends, & all of humanity & nature.
Yes, it’s better to give than to receive, but we must give to ourselves first!! Parents, I know this may prove challenging, but I know you can keep this in mind, & set time aside, even just for 5 minutes.
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Blessings sweet friends ☀️
