08/05/2020
The Nourishment Series: Part 2
Care for Your Emotional State of Being
Oftentimes when explaining what I do as a health coach to someone, I half-jokingly refer to it as "health therapy". The reason being is, our emotional state is so closely entwined with how we behave or react, what our habits are, and the choices we make concerning what we are craving in a very...emotional moment.
It's true that many of us are controlled by the strong emotional reactions to certain situations big or small, for example world tragedies, a loss of a loved one or pet, a frustrating job or relationship, overwhelm or stress.
Any of these can put us on a tailspin leading into numbing ourselves out with comfort food and then ending up with more feelings of self judgement or regret. Well, that's not fun, who wants that and why do we do this to ourselves? It's crazy!
So, this is the nourishment series and I'm talking about emotions, lets get into how that looks in your everyday life.
First of all, our emotions are really signals showing us what we are truly experiencing in a moment. They don't lie! They may also be showing what needs some attention right now. Feeling sensitive? Maybe your confidence needs encouraging by being with good friends. Feeling angry or frustrated? Try checking in with yourself to see if your expectations are off or if you could benefit from a new perspective. This is almost always true for me!
If we can learn to recognize what our emotions are really telling us, and we can create a safe place for them to be fully felt for a moment of time we can much more easily move on from them. It then becomes natural to want to be proactive in taking actions to achieve balance, peace, and joy. Now that sounds much better!
Here's a few tips on how to practice getting a handle on those uncomfortable feelings.
Frist, be open to being gracious with yourself. Imagine what you would say to a friend in the same situation. Offer yourself compassion and lovingkindness, that is accepting of what is happening inside yourself.
Second, shift your focus to the good in your life and elicit as many positive emotions as you can-list them! What are you grateful for? What brings you joy and delight? What activities could put you into a happy and peaceful state of mind? Getting active outside and listening to uplifting music does it for me! Find what works for you!
When we are able to make the better choices to nourish our emotional health we are saying "I do have control over myself" and I don't have to turn to comfort eating to feel better, and guess what-that makes you feel EVEN BETTER! That's an upward spiral, a Win Win place to be!
If you feel you really struggle with this, please don't hesitate to reach out to me and we can talk about how health coaching can benefit you right now! Thank you everyone, have a great weekend!