The Underlying Answers

08/16/2025

You’ve done the inner work—�the therapy, the certifications, the journaling, the mindset shifts.�You’re clear on what you want.�You’ve invested so much in your growth.
Yet you feel stuck.

Something keeps pulling you back into the old loop.

Burnout, self-doubt, over-giving, and under-receiving keep showing up—even when you're trying to move forward.

Because sometimes, the patterns holding you back aren’t in your mind…

They’re stored in your body.

And until they’re released, your energy won’t align with your vision. No matter how much you know.

Can you relate? What patterns keep showing up for you? Comment below.

08/13/2025

Dear spiritual coaches and healers…

If you’ve been dimming your light to be more “palatable”... this is your reminder:

You’re not too much. You’re exactly who they’ve been waiting for.

The clients who are meant for you aren’t looking for a filtered, watered-down version of your truth.

They’re looking for the real you.

Your story. Your energy. Your voice.

Stop shrinking. Start showing up fully.

✨ You’re the guide someone has been praying for.

08/12/2025

It all starts TODAY! 🔥 The Midlife on Fire Summit is officially live and it’s not too late to join us for FREE.

I’m presenting "From Fatigue to Fire: Heal, Align, and Rise Into Your Most Vibrant Chapter." and sharing:

🌟 Why your fatigue may be a signal—not a flaw—and what your body is really trying to tell you
🌟 How to stop seeing midlife as a breakdown and start using it as a turning point
🌟 Healing isn’t just emotional—it’s physical, energetic, and deeply personal.

Join us now: https://go.eventraptor.com/summit/midlife-on-fire-summit-2508/cindycostley

Comment “Interested” below, and I’ll send you the link directly!

Let’s light this midlife on fire together. 🔥

08/12/2025

I’m speaking tomorrow at 1:45 pm and would love for you to join us! Type “Me” in the cat and I will send you the link to register for this empowering event.

08/10/2025

Are you ready to rise in midlife? 💫

I’m speaking at the Midlife on Fire Summit this week and I hope you’ll be there!

My talk, "From Fatigue to Fire: Heal, Align, and Rise Into Your Most Vibrant Chapter.", will walk you through:

🌟 Why your fatigue may be a signal—not a flaw—and what your body is really trying to tell you.
🌟 How to stop seeing midlife as a breakdown and start using it as a turning point.
🌟 Healing isn’t just emotional—it’s physical, energetic, and deeply personal.

It’s free. It’s online. It’s exactly what you need to make the rest of your life the BEST of your life.

Comment “Interested” below, and I’ll send you the link directly!

OR

👉 Or register here: https://go.eventraptor.com/summit/midlife-on-fire-summit-2508/cindycostley

08/09/2025

Starting at 15, I became allergic to almost everything—chemicals, animals, plants, most foods.

I lived with constant fatigue, brain fog, skin rashes, gut issues, and an itching that made me feel like I was crawling out of my skin.

For too many years, I did everything I could to try to fix it. I tried everything—Western, Eastern, anything people told me to try. I said yes to it all.

But nothing worked.

One day, my family and I went to a lake six hours away. Everyone was water skiing, and I was in the water skiing too. Within two hours of being in the water, I was rushed to the hospital with a massive anaphylactic reaction. That one reaction became the start of many—my body could no longer recover like it used to. And eight months later, I was shutting down. My organs were failing.

In that moment, I asked God: Show me what to do. I want to live.

That moment changed everything.

Because I realized. I had spent a lifetime treating my body like a problem when all it ever wanted was to be heard.

08/08/2025

🔥 Midlife isn’t a crisis — it’s your most powerful chapter. 🔥

I'm speaking at the Midlife on Fire Summit on August 12–13, 2025, and I want YOU to be there!

🎤 My session: From Fatigue to Fire: Heal, Align, and Rise Into Your Most Vibrant Chapter

This talk will help you:
1. Understand what your fatigue is really trying to tell you.
2. Reframe midlife as a turning point—not a breakdown.
3. Discover why “doing the work” isn’t enough—and what to do when you still feel stuck.

Join this 2-day virtual experience made for women 35+ who are ready to reclaim their wealth, wellness, and worth.

Comment “Interested” below, and I’ll send you the link directly!

OR

👉 Or register here: https://go.eventraptor.com/summit/midlife-on-fire-summit-2508/cindycostley

08/07/2025

Grab your FREE festival seat today! I am speaking on Sunday at 11 AM PST, and there are many other notable speakers to learn from and grow with.

https://womens-vision-fest-summit-2508.eventraptor.com/?fbclid=IwQ0xDSwMBz49leHRuA2FlbQIxMQABHrr1IMIuehjh4_nAejsVU7YfGf3zYdLWd2P2Mlr-kmbOjgUPIMTMwl2frGSM_aem_cmFnoWMztii_BZy60yKUUQ

A Transformational Online Gathering for Midlife Women Ready to Reclaim Purpose, Power, and PossibilityAugust 8–21, 2025 | Free Registration

08/06/2025

If you're still feeling stuck after all the work you've done, you're not broken.

You’ve gained the knowledge. You’ve done the healing.

But if your nervous system is still wired for survival, your progress will always feel like an uphill battle.

This is why many spiritual coaches and healers still feel drained, stuck, or unsure even after years of inner work.

You don’t need more effort.

You need to feel safe in your body again.

That’s when real momentum begins.

This is the missing piece that shifts everything.