23/08/2022
Everything is an illusion
There is so much more to "confidence" or "liberation."
And the major keys are starting with setting and upholding boundaries.
It's like the proverbial iceberg.
When you see THAT confident person (like, anyone you've assumed is "perfect" in every way shape, and form) you automatically think that they had a different upbringing than you, or they are all about themselves, or YOU were just born different and can't be they way they are.
There is a bit of envy and jealousy.
BUT confidence is just the tip of the iceberg.
The tip of the iceberg is s only 1/10th of the whole iceberg.
All "the work" that goes into confidence-building is what no one wants to see and deal with.
Meaning, 9/10ths of confidence work is unseen; it's hard.
It's heavy and deep-seated work.
It's been forming, growing, and taking root for a loooong ass time (like your whole life and **BEFORE**).
I mean, who wants to do that work? Not many.
People want the reward but rarely want to feel the pain of growth and change.
**Fun Fact:** It is next to impossible for manmade equipment to destroy an iceberg; naturally, their deterioration happens over time.
Meaning, there is no magic wand to fix the underbelly of your boundary issues. BUT, with a little hard work, guidance, practice, encouragement, and A LOT of grace and patience the roots (self-sabotage, insecurity, jealousy, anger, etc.) eventually break away.
Before you know it, you are living a life that is yours, free from generational trauma, limiting beliefs, unrelenting expectations, and much, MUCH more.
You ready to do this?
