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The time has come for me to finally make the move & say goodbye. I've been sitting with this for the past few months, tr...
02/06/2024

The time has come for me to finally make the move & say goodbye. I've been sitting with this for the past few months, trying to reflect on what I want (and have capacity) to do, and the decision has yet to change, so I have to share.

I came into this work hoping to fill a hole in the support system we have available, and unfortunately, there are too many hurdles for me to continue jumping over. Working under capitalism means for me to earn enough I would need to raise my prices beyond levels I feel comfortable with. Working in this field means I need to give more & more of my capacity to others, losing who I am, & what I love to do & be. Inherently, who I am now, & the way the world is currently, means this work isn't sustainable.

So I've had to make the decision to step away, and focus on myself. It's been incredibly difficult to come to this decision, & I'm sure I'll have my regrets, but taking care of myself needs to be my priority.
Take care, stay safe, and be kind,
K

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1: pale blue background, with white "alert" stripes framing black text. Text says "Goodbye. Life changes, capacity changes & unfortunately, things end. After a gorgeous time learning lots & supporting many, I have to say goodbye."
2: pale blue background, with white "alert" stripes framing black text. Text says "Goodbye. Some things you can't figure out without trying, & this doesn't mean it's forever. But I have to stop spending more of my life supporting others than myself".
3: pale blue background, with white "alert" stripes framing black text. Text says "Goodbye. It has been a beautiful experience, & I'm thankful for everyone I was able to work with. Thank you all."

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Have you heard of the worth it equation? Adding to the spoon theory, the worth it equation includes our own motivation &...
11/03/2024

Have you heard of the worth it equation? Adding to the spoon theory, the worth it equation includes our own motivation & desire for enjoyment. Sometimes, this motivation is able to overpower our potential recovery time or pain, the joy of being there making it worth it for us.

How do you assess your capacity to participate or join in? For some of us, this is a daily check-in, for others, just during a flare-up, but I feel we could all use a few more tools to examine how we navigate the world. Will this help you?

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1: pale green background, with green math equations, purple shapes & blue text reading 'do you know what the the worth it equation is?"
2: pale green background, with green math equations, purple shapes & blue text reading "if you're someone whose energy levels, pain, or capacity change regularly, you might need to explore the worth it equation"
2: pale green background, with green math equations, purple shapes & blue text reading "the worth it equation is, is the negative recovery worth the positive experience"
3. pale green background, with green math equations, purple shapes & blue text reading "for example: a friend's wedding might require a week of recovery, but given the positive of going, it might be worth it"
4.pale green background, with green math equations, purple shapes & blue text reading "figuring this out can be difficult, but empowering. Sometimes we fight through the negative because of the good, and sometimes we can't"
5. pale green background, with green math equations, purple shapes & blue text reading "could you use the worth it equation in your life?"

I've been pretty absent lately, and exploring what I want & need from my life & business. Last year, I had to make the ...
22/02/2024

I've been pretty absent lately, and exploring what I want & need from my life & business. Last year, I had to make the decision to step away from supporting clients one-on-one, and since then, I've been consistently reflecting & imagining how I want my life to go.
What I wanted from this business was to find a way to support people where they are, give the education they need, show them skills they can take away and grow with, and be a person to turn to for guidance & support. That's not changing, but how I do this will.

I'm still exploring all the options for me, but already have a few beautiful projects in the works. Working with schools, community groups & councils, hopefully growing our wider community supports is where I see this going, but I'm open for suggestions! If there's education you feel is needed, workshops for connection or learning, or spaces to be created, reach out!

We all need to alter our goals depending on our circumstances, and it can feel disappointing sometimes, or like we're failing. But it's not failing to chose an option that is better for us, even if that means something completely different from the original plan.

Image description: pale blue background, with three coloured (blue, yellow & orange) stripes squiggled across. A white cloud is in the centre, with the text "still here....just differently". Coloured stars (white, purple, blue & orange) are also visible in the background
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