01/03/2021
Relationships can be challenging to navigate as we shift into higher states of consciousness.
Many of us are learning how to BE with others who are not shifting in the same way as ourselves. This isn’t about turning our backs on those who don’t see the same way we do but instead embracing BEING who we are regardless of how anyone else sees us.
If you are in a relationship of any kind that feels challenging to navigate right now you are not alone. Shifting into new states of consciousness when others around you are not can be the greatest practice of Sovereignty.
Below are 7 tools that may be able to assist you in navigating challenging relationships right now.
1) Take Self-Responsibility: You are not responsible for anyone’s reaction, response, behavior or Beingness.
2) You Are Safe: There is an energetic field around all human bodies. No one can “do” anything to you or enter into your field unless you allow it.
3) Observe Over React: Observe the interaction from a birds eye view. Watch how you and the other human interact.
4) Feel Over Think (Body VS Mind): Feel the energetic exchange between you and the other person instead of thinking the exchange. What does the exchange feel like?
5) Hold Boundaries: Step away, say no, don’t engage, speak your truth. Practice Being YOU not what anyone else wants or need.
6) Trauma Responds As Blame or Ridicule: Their anger, ridicule, attacks are not about you. See these repossess as their trauma not who you are.
7) Honor You: Trust what you feel and what you need to do, say or be and let that be enough. Be You.
We are learning how to Be in relationships while we remain in our sovereignty. I hope these 7 steps can assist you in some way.
And if you are in an abusive relationship begin to intend, visualise and see yourself no longer in it.
We all deserve more love not less. Honor You! Love you! Appreciate you! And remember you do not need to hold, carry or accept anything less than respect, love and acceptance.
Thank you for Being You!