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28/05/2025

why it's difficult to love me ❤️

02/05/2025

For the first time in life, we meet someone unique.
We begin to feel that we are safe with that person.
Even if we can’t claim ownership,
We must be careful with such a heart.
Even from a distance, we should cherish that love…
Because such encounters happen only once in a lifetime.

Yes, I too met such a person—
A man who unknowingly filled an empty space in my life.
Now, I’ve grown accustomed—
To being with him always, beyond any sense of ownership.

25/04/2025

When a relationship becomes unbearable, that’s when a woman begins to show it. ❤️‍🩹

22/04/2025

I loved her for a long time…

22/04/2025

nature of human ❤️

21/04/2025

If it’s love, then the gift should be…

I believe the best gift we can give someone close to us is their mental freedom.

There’s nothing more valuable to a person than mental freedom.

From a husband to a wife, from a wife to a husband,
From parents to children,
From children to parents,
From one friend to another —
the most precious gift we can give is mental freedom.

Many people lose their mental freedom — sometimes because of others, sometimes even because of themselves…

Even in the midst of countless problems, a single kind word of love can give someone their mental freedom.

But in order to give that gift, we first need to be willing to let that person have their mental freedom…
We need to want to see them happy…
Without that, we cannot offer the gift of mental freedom.

There’s no law that says every problem must be shared with the person involved…
So sometimes, you can choose not to burden your loved one with it — and that becomes a gift of mental freedom to them.

There’s no rule that says the person involved has to handle every task…
So sometimes, by relieving them of certain responsibilities, you’re giving them the gift of mental freedom.

There’s no rule that says one side must carry the full weight of life…
If we can carry a portion of that weight ourselves, that too is gifting mental freedom to the other.

That gift can be hidden in a lovingly offered cup of tea,
a gentle, kind touch,
a warm smile full of affection,
a blessing placed through a soft hand on the head,
or in a heartfelt invitation…

So,
May this pure gift be granted to everyone…
May we all meet those beautiful souls in life who gift us with that rare treasure called mental freedom.

07/09/2022

නව යොවුන් වියේදී අපට සැලසුම් නිර්මාණය කළ හැකිය, නමුත් අපි වැඩිහිටියන් වූ විට, ජීවිතය කෙටි බැවින් අපට සූදානම් කළ සැලැස්මක් අවශ්‍ය වේ.

As Teenagers we may create plans, but when we become adults, we need a ready-made plan because the life is short.

- අම්රිටායා සිල්වා-

06/08/2022

The new generation is accessing and exploring themselves in the modern world very fast,

There is a debate of how are they going to manage themselves under Sri Lankan cultural pressure?
Are they capable of handling it by themselves or is our education system providing the capacity?

Wouldn’t this affect the rate of suicidal ideation?

නව පරම්පරාව නවීන ලෝකයට ඉතා වේගයෙන් ප්‍රවේශ වී ගවේෂණය කරමින් සිටී,

ශ්‍රී ලාංකේය සංස්කෘතික පීඩනය යටතේ ඔවුන් තමන්ව කළමනාකරණය කරගන්නේ කෙසේද යන්න පිළිබඳ විවාදයක් තිබේද?
ඔවුන්ට එය තනිවම හසුරුවා ගැනීමේ හැකියාව තිබේද නැතහොත් අපගේ අධ්‍යාපන ක්‍රමය එම හැකියාව ලබා දෙනවාද?

මෙය සියදිවි නසාගැනීමේ සිතුවිලි අනුපාතයට බලපාන්නේ නැද්ද?
-amritaya silva -

04/08/2022

-They might be in search of peace and simplicity in life, but once they wished for a comfortable and advanced city life as well.-

-ඔවුන් ජීවිතයේ සාමය සහ සරල බව සොයමින් සිටිය හැකි නමුත්, ඔවුන් සැපපහසු සහ උසස් නගර ජීවිතයක් ද ප්‍රාර්ථනා කළහ.-

-Amritaya silva -

30/07/2022

The heart might say,
"Stop chasing the world, you have been missing the best time of your life "

හදවත කියන්න පුළුවන්
"ලෝකය හඹා යෑම නවත්වන්න, ඔබේ ජීවිතයේ හොඳම කාලය ඔබට මග හැරෙමින් පවතී "

-Amritaya Silva -

30/07/2022

Sometimes when you couldn’t find or confused finding your true colours, you will stick with the wrong group and end up thinking you aren’t good enough.

සමහර විට ඔබට ඔබේ සැබෑ වර්ණය සොයා ගැනීමට නොහැකි වූ විට හෝ ව්‍යාකූල වූ විට, ඔබ වැරදි කණ්ඩායමක් සමඟ රැඳී සිටින අතර අවසානයේ ඔබ ප්‍රමාණවත් නොවන බව සිතනු ඇත.

-Amritaya Silva -

30/07/2022