Healing Pathwalkers

24/07/2025

Radical accountability is liberation.

Being able to simply own what we realize—even long after the fact—is one of the most freeing skills we can develop. And it is a skill… one that requires training, practice, and deep compassion.

Without the ability to self-examine, accept correction (from ourselves or others), and speak honestly about what we find—without shame or deflection—we unintentionally create conflict with the very people we’re trying to connect with. Often, that person is sitting right in front of us, hoping for deeper intimacy, clarity, or understanding.

Being wrong doesn’t mean we are bad. It means we were operating from outdated programming, misinformation, trauma responses, or unhealed patterns.

Accountability means saying:

“I didn’t have all the information. I responded in a way that no longer feels aligned. And now, I choose to do it differently.”

It’s how we begin doing more of what feels right, and less of what causes harm—to ourselves and others.

🌀 Want to learn how to account for all the ingredients in the soup of your life?
🌀 Curious about what true self-accountability looks like in practice?

Let’s dive into that together. I offer one-on-one training designed to help you cultivate this exact skill—without shame, with compassion, and at your own pace.

📩 Email me at jessie@healingpathwalkers.com to schedule your session.

20/07/2025

Here is my first recording to be released publicly!

Jessie S Starr is an independent singer-songwriter and musician who found her voice later in life, emerging from years of deep healing and transformation. After seven years of private study with power

15/07/2025

Ignite your songwriting, grow creative connections, and feel a deep sense of belonging. Events and inspiring online community for songwriters.

09/07/2025

🚌 Before You Date Again:

Call Your Whole Self Back On the Bus

By Jessie Starr | www.HealingPathwalkers.com

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So you’re feeling the stirrings…
The desire to open your heart. To love again. To share the road of life with someone who sees, holds, and meets you fully.

But if you’ve experienced abandonment, instability, or early trauma, the road to partnership doesn’t begin with a dating profile or romantic hopes.

It begins on your own bus.

You see, we are all driving the bus of our life—and many of us, especially those of us with trauma, have been driving with only some of our parts on board.

The rest?
Thrown off along the way.
Rejected. Shamed. Silenced.
Abandoned at the exact mile markers where we didn’t feel safe to be whole.

And now, we wonder:
Why does love feel so hard? Why can’t I trust it? Why do I keep attracting what hurts me?

Because the one who’s showing up to love…
…is only part of you.

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🔦 Step One: Shine the Light of Awareness on Your Fractured States

Before we can share our life with another, we must gather our exiled parts.

Those fractured states—your inner child, your rebellious teenager, the exhausted protector, the shapeshifter who once survived by becoming who others needed—they all deserve a seat back on the bus.

You don’t need to fix them.
You don’t need to silence them.
You need to see them.

🌀 Tool: The Light of Awareness
Sit in stillness. Call one part of you back onto the bus—the one you’ve been avoiding.
Ask:

“What do you want me to know?”
“How long have you been waiting for me?”
“What role have you been playing to keep me safe?”

Let that part speak.
Hold the wheel steady while they take their seat.

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🚧 Step Two: Clear the Roadblocks Before You Date

Most of us want to skip this step and jump into partnership hoping someone else will help us feel whole.

But here’s the truth:
A fractured inner world will create fractured relationships.

If parts of you are still:
• Distrustful of safety
• Hungry for rescue
• Terrified of intimacy
• Addicted to control or caretaking…

…those will steer the bus—whether you realize it or not.

🌀 Exercise: Map the Parts Driving Your Love Life
Ask yourself:
• Who’s been taking the wheel in my relationships?
• Who got thrown off the bus after past heartbreaks?
• Which part of me keeps choosing intensity over intimacy?

Draw it out if you want—make it playful. Give each part a name and seat. Awareness turns shadows into passengers—not drivers.

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🛤️ Step Three: Build Your Relationship Vision with All Parts Present

When you gather your whole self, your vision changes.

You’re not looking for someone to rescue you.
You’re not hoping love will erase the past.
You’re ready for someone to meet you in your fullness.

🌀 Soul Prompt:

“What kind of love would I call in… if every part of me knew they belonged?”

This isn’t a fairy tale.
This is relational sovereignty.

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💬 Ready to Call Your Parts Home—and Prepare for True Partnership?

This is where my 1:1 work shines.

Together, we’ll:
• Identify and integrate fractured states still running your love life
• Use the Light of Awareness to bring compassion to the shadow
• Rebuild your internal relationship map so you attract conscious, soul-aligned partners
• Clear energetic cords to past loves and rebuild trust in your own discernment

Because love is not something you find.
It’s something you become available to—when you’re whole enough to hold it.

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🕊 Book Your Session

💻 www.HealingPathwalkers.com
📩 Email me: Jessie@HealingPathwalkers.com
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✨ Work with me 1:1 or join upcoming group immersions for trauma-informed love and shadow healing.

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🚍 You are not too much.

You are many parts longing to reunite.
And love? Real love—sacred love—awaits the version of you who is whole enough to receive it.
Let’s call them home.
Let’s get back on the bus.
Together.

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02/07/2025

💔 Grieving the Undead – A Different Kind of Loss

With Jessie Starr | Healing Pathwalkers

Sometimes we have to mourn the not dead yet.
The people who are still breathing, but no longer present in our lives.
The ones we love deeply—parents, partners, siblings, or friends—whose emotional absence feels louder than any final goodbye.

Sometimes the death is the relationship itself.

As children, if we were abandoned—physically or emotionally—by parents who didn’t die but simply left in spirit, it can distort our ability to know when to let go. We stay entangled, waiting, hoping, or trying to fix what is beyond our control.

But recognizing when we’re holding onto someone in the present because we couldn’t let them go in the past…
That’s where the healing begins.
That’s where we reclaim our power.

You are not alone in this kind of grief.
And you do not have to process it alone.

✨ I offer guided session work and energy healing to help you grieve the undead, heal abandonment wounds, and find your way back to yourself.

📩 Schedule a session or reach out for support:
👉 Visit: www.healingpathwalkers.com
📧 Email: jesse@healingpathwalkers.com

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11/06/2025

Happy Strawberry Moon!

28/05/2025

We become reflections of those we spend the most time with, whether we realize it or not. Science tells us that emotions are contagious—negativity can spread just as quickly as joy. When we stay tethered to toxic energy, it doesn’t just drain us; it chips away at our spirit and dulls our light.

But here’s the truth nobody tells you: you don’t owe anyone your peace. The people around you should lift you higher, fuel your growth, and inspire your best self—not leave you feeling smaller or stuck.

Take a moment today to ask yourself: Who in my life truly elevates me? And who am I holding on to that’s keeping me from flourishing? Sometimes, the strongest act of love is letting go. 🧘‍♂️⚡