25/11/2021
Happy Thanksgiving! I want to let you know how grateful I am for you and to put a couple of thoughts “on your plate” (sorry, but I couldn’t resist) as we head into the holidays.
Gratitude – being in a state of gratitude is one of the most healing, comforting, beautiful experiences. When we are intentionally looking for goodness and noticing the things in life and in our days for which we are grateful, our body releases dopamine and serotonin, two crucial neurotransmitters responsible for our emotions, and they make us feel ‘good’. When we make practice of finding our gratitude, we strengthen those neuro “muscles” and over time, this state of well-being will become your baseline.
Today, I am thankful for, and miss terribly, my dad, Bruce, of blessed memory, and commas. It was Bruce who demonstrated and instilled in me the importance of looking for and honoring goodness in people, life, and nature.
What are you grateful for today?
Food and making a plan. Thanksgiving is the trickiest of holidays for me because it is so food-centric. I still have that voice (primitive brain) telling me that I can eat anything I want today, just this once, just for today, and it will be fine. Yep. Nope. She’s lying. It’s not that simple for me. For me to come out of the day feeling good, my best practice is to go into the day with a plan. If I come to the table with my decisions already made, I reduce temptation and set myself up to enjoy the day without regrets, headaches, heart palpitations, sugar slumps and DAYS of recovering while the sugars leave my body. I know my body and I know the things that make me feel bad and set off cravings for days to come, so I avoid those foods even on a holiday, even if someone I love went to a lot of trouble to make it. My plan today is to eat a lot of turkey, a baked sweet potato with butter and cinnamon and lots of green bean casserole. I’ll eat way too many deviled eggs and probably even drip some Rotel tomato cheese dip over my turkey!
None of this is to say that you shouldn’t eat special treats today. As we all know, what works for me is not necessarily what works for you! YOU know YOUR body and what you need to maintain your optimal health and feeling of well-being. What is your plan for today? Tell me about it, dressing, pies and all!
Family – I am so thankful for my daughters, whose births (a few decades ago) brought direction and clarity to my life. I often say they saved my life and I truly believe that. I know I’m not alone in that finding words to express love for our children is impossible. I am thankful for those in my children’s lives who bring them happiness and joy.
Of course, there are those we will see who will raise anxiety, make us hate everything and feel the opposite of gratitude. My plan here is to bite my tongue, even if it bleeds, and to remember that they are doing the best they can with what they have. Trying to resolve or discuss shortcomings or age-old issues is futile during the holidays. Let love and compassion prevail. Wish me luck with this one! This is also where a toddy might come in handy.
Enjoy your day and the holiday weeks to come! With love and gratitude for friends, family, delicious foods, special treats, and good health!