07/01/2023
When you are codependent you don’t know it. You don’t know that you are more subconscious than conscious and that all of your well intended will and desire to create a different life than the one you experienced as child could never be enough to actually change your life. You don’t know that you have been conditioned to not think, not feel, not talk, and not ask for help. You do not know that your ideas about life will be overpowered by patterns and programs from your past.
When you are codependent, your life feels like fly paper. No matter how hard you try to acquire healthy relationships, you inevitably feel empty. You think that if you caretake enough, love will just happen. If you pretend you DON’T feel unhappy, somehow, someday happiness will just arrive.
When you are codependent, you don’t always recognize how you are repeating subconscious patterns, nor do you realize that divine love is always trying to make its way through you, and that what’s wrong is the filter by which this divine love must pass through. Our subconscious, faulty perceptions about relationships, our self worth, emotions, and love keep us stuck and repeating the precise rejection and abandonment issues we falsely assumed care taking, rescuing, people pleasing, and denying our true feelings would avoid.
It’s not you, it’s the past, the old energy, generational patterns and programming that is keeping you stuck!
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