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21/11/2023

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-Founder; Ms. Beverly J Clay
-"The Rebirth Center"

30/10/2023

30/10/2023

Narcissists often exhibit an aversion towards celebrations, birthdays, holidays, and special days where they are not the centre of attention. This distinctive characteristic stems from their envy and deep-rooted need for constant validation and admiration from others. In their relentless pursuit of validation, they will go to great lengths to disrupt and undermine any occasion where they perceive the attention being diverted away from themselves.

This behaviour accentuates their inherent envy of others, their self-centeredness and their constant craving for recognition. Narcissists are driven by an insatiable desire to be the focal point of any social gathering or special event, as it feeds their fragile self-esteem. When they are unable to monopolise the attention, their deep-seated feelings of envy, insecurity and insignificance become amplified.

Their tactics to ruin these occasions can vary, ranging from overt acts of defiance and attention-seeking behaviours to subtler means of sowing discord or emotional manipulation. They may engage in attention-seeking outbursts, create unnecessary conflicts, or act sullen and withdrawn to draw attention back to themselves. Their ultimate aim is to disrupt the joy and unity that these occasions represent, ensuring that they remain the central figure.

It is important to recognise and understand this aspect of narcissistic behaviour, as it sheds light on the underlying insecurities and emotional vulnerabilities that drive these individuals. When encountering such disruptive behaviour, it is crucial to remain resilient and focused on the true spirit of the occasion, rising above the narcissist's attempts to undermine the celebration.

For more information about understanding and overcoming narcissistic and emotional abuse, click the links below.

https://overcoming-narcissist-abuse.teachable.com/p/break-free-from-the-narcissist

Check this out!
15 Rules To Deal With Narcissistic People.: How To Stay Sane And Break The Chain.

https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B0BYRLLGRJ/ref=tmm_hrd_swatch_0?ie=UTF8&qid=1679325458&sr=8-1

Narcissists Handbook: The ultimate guide to understanding and overcoming narcissistic and emotional abuse.-1

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C87NNBNP?ref_=cm_sw_r_mwn_dp_VKQZHN0VXE8W4WXTQQ20

(Sponsored.). https://betterhelp.com/elizabethshaw

How Do Narcissists React To Special Occasions?
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLd8V9hfidbfDpGbcXCYbq_eUi1sdOckAE

30/07/2023

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15/07/2023

Good afternoon y’all! We’re still getting to know each other here, but I think we feel this way for the most part.. ❤️🫶❤️ christine

30/05/2023

From staying active to staying connected, there are so many things you can do to manage stress and protect your . 🧠

🎨: Color Me Happii

28/05/2023

With news of her recent passing a few days ago, we thought it would be appropriate to honor the strength and resilience of one of the most famous musical icons - Tina Turner🎼

Tina is considered a rock-n-roll legend, with track hits like “What’s Love Got To Do With It”, “River Deep – Mountain High”, and “The Best”. She is also known for breaking the silence on domestic violence in the 80’s (back when domestic violence was considered a taboo topic of conversation)

Tina met her ex-husband, Ike Turner, when she was just 17 years old after seeing his band perform at a local venue. Ike saw her potential and made her the lead singer of his band, choosing her stage name himself, and then lavishing her through clothes and jewelry as a way to impress her. They married in 1962. Tina and Ike were together for a total of 16 years and she endured horrific abuse through the entirety of the relationship.
By 1978, Tina had the courage to leave the relationship with nothing, moved away, and had to rebuild her entire career – singing out in Las Vegas and appearing on various TV shows. In 1981, she made one of the biggest decisions of her life that would also impact the way the world saw domestic violence – she would do a tell-all interview about her relationship 📣

Prior to this tell-all interview in 1981, research around domestic violence was limited and it was thought that poor women without resources were the only victims being abused. When Tina Turner spoke out about her experiences of abuse, it brought awareness to the fact that domestic violence was everywhere – regardless of social status, resources, age, etc. By Tina sharing her story, it started a wave of women coming forward to speak out about abuse.

Tina Turner became a household name for, not only her impact through music, but through her inspirational courage to bringing light to dark realities. She was an advocate for domestic violence survivors and the LBGTQ+ community.

May this rockstar of a woman REST IN POWER ✊💜

28/05/2023

Today’s tip is to stop and smell the roses—literally! 🌹

Studies show that being surrounded by is a mood booster. While you’re at it, consider adding plants to your space to help improve and cognitive functioning. Find more tips and resources: https://bit.ly/3Mspaoh

🎨: Gemma Correll

21/05/2023

21/05/2023

Location to be announced!
Much needed conversation!

17/05/2023

There are lots of trauma responses.
These are some of them.
They can change over time too.

~ Lilly Hope Lucario
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Healing From Complex Trauma and Ptsd/cptsd