15/02/2023
A WOUNDED CHILD
There is no such thing as good and bad people.
There are wounded people.
Wounded people who stay in the darkness, instead of healing and returning to their inner light and love, returning to the Divine.
Some people are born wounded.
Their journey in their mother’s womb develops their wounds.
Their journey in their mother’s womb transmits to them their mother’s wound, Father’s wound or even their ancestors wound.
Wounded children are raised in family dynamics where love is suppressed by anger, abuse, blame and guilt, emotional unavailable parents or even by parents who are “too busy” for their children.
Wounded children are raised in family dynamics where a parent is sick or deceased or even divorce and separation.
When parents struggle, even when they do their best not to show their children, their children feel this energy.
Children start to believe: “I am not worthy of love, I am the reason for my parents pain”...
Wounded children grow up as wounded adolescents then wounded adults.
The only way to heal their wounds is through love and acceptance.
When people end up in abusive relationships, mostly both the man and woman are wounded individuals who have chosen each other to breakthrough and heal or to continue passing it on from one generation to the other, until one person in the family chooses to heal, to bring love and light into the wounds.
Sometimes when one person is abusive while the other isn’t, he/she is here to receive his/her partner with love while continuing staying in his/her own light.
Wounded children grow up believing that love, trust and security don’t exist or are only temporary, so they close their hearts, choosing that “it is not safe to feel, it’s not safe to be vulnerable”.
They loose the connection with themselves and so with others and their Creator.
Their lives become a path of “doing” rather than “being”. When you walk into a wounded person, be patient with them, give them love.
Only when you feel safe, you will transform naturally through your presence a wounded person into a person who starts to walk the path of love and light...through your presence in his/her life.
Serving God through your light and love, serving humanity.
Written by: The Soul Journey with Sarah Moussa
