15/07/2025
Reframing Finding to Forming 🌀
If you’ve spent years trying to find yourself, you’re not alone.
So many of us carry the quiet ache of seeking, believing there’s a version of us out there that, once found, will make everything make sense.
But neuroscience offers us a liberating truth:
The self isn’t something you discover.
It’s something you form - through repetition, attention, and choice.
Your brain is constantly rewiring itself based on what you do, feel, and focus on.
This is neuroplasticity.
And it means that every small act (breathwork, journaling, rest, movement) isn’t just healing…
It’s identity in motion.
So maybe the goal isn’t to find the one right version of you.
Maybe it’s to become the one you feel safe and proud to return to, again and again.
Let your healing be the shape you grow into.
Let your rituals be the roots you form beneath.