11/05/2025
I have a new deck - Cries of the Souls Oracle! If your seeing this post, chances are you need to receive the message of this card 🙏🏻 This is a very powerful Shadow Work deck to work with.
Lack of Self Confidence
"I am the voice that tells you you're not able, that you fail, fail and be disappointed. I am the voice of pessimism that doesn't believe in you and counsels you to do nothing. When I'm around you feel dispossessed of your resources and skills and focus more on potential failure than on what every step you take can teach you. When I am present you compare yourself with others: everything seems easy for them and you feel a great heaviness inside you. I come from your wounds, education and first life experiences, but my voice oppressed, destabilized and freezes you every time.
I can serve as an excuse, helping you push things back to later and remain in your comfort zone. You use me to stagnate and avoid taking risks, and you let opportunities pass you by. You use me to avoid confronting your wounds and making changes in your life. I can also be beneficial to you when you need other people's attention, because to alleviate your lack of self-confidence other people may pay you compliments, show you kindness and do things for you.
Self-confidence is a temporary state that depends on your physical, emotional and mental health, your energy levels and the people around you. To have confidence in yourself you need self-love and self-esteem, to become aware of and respect your value, qualities and skills. You need to be honest and authentic with yourself. When you hear my voice don't abandon what you're doing: ask yourself why you doubt yourself and what you need to reassure yourself and keep moving.
Lack of self-confidence is normal, but you shouldn't allow it to lock you in a comfort zone that used to suit you but no longer does. Love and accept who you are. List everything that prevents you from loving yourself, that you don't like who you are, then replace that criticism with kind, positive affirmations. List things you want to do, seeing them as positive and stimulating challenges, which will help you become aware that you CAN do it!"
Remember that self-confidence doesn't come first; courage does. What is one small action you can take today that can exercise that bravery?
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Lots of faerie love 😊
