01/09/2024
How we respond to situations that involve others hurting us or causing us pain can give us valuable insight on areas that we need to improve on within our own character.
The universe as a whole is an interactive mirror and these "characters" in our lives play various roles mimicking and reflecting our own inner flaws and short comings. Perhaps it is the way we learn what we need to work on.
When someone does us wrong, often times we react instead of responding. Instead of realizing that they are just not on the same energy wave length as we are, we say things like, " oh my goodness, I would never do that!" or perhaps, "That was so wrong of him or her to do this TO me." When in reality, everyone is just living their lives. We can't expect people to do what we would do in any situation because they are not us. When we take it upon ourselves to judge them as wrong we are assuming the role as a judge in their lives and are no longer living in oneness with source because we are now attached to this judgement that we feel so justified to place on them. This can also increase the karmic bond or soul tie to the person who "wronged" us.
In reality sometimes we are meant to get hurt. We are meant to suffer and the only thing in life other than change that is certain is the presence of suffering. For without suffering, how would we really appreciate the times that are full of pleasure. Without pain, how could there be a deeper healing and how could we find that wholeness we seek if not first having the crude reminder that we are in fact broken.
For a personal Life coaching hour session or Empathetic Emotional Talk Therapy Session contact me for a free consultation. Remember, you are LOVED and you MATTER and sometimes bad things happen to us. I am not suggesting by any means that you or anyone should just put up with abuse, there needs to be boundaries with everyone in our lives and when someone continues to harm us emotionally or physically then we need to protect ourselves. But I am saying that we can learn from the pain and unless it was done to us out of spite, then chances are the person is just not yet awakened and they are just not yet aware of how their actions affect those around them. Chances are it was not personal, it wasn't meant to hurt us, yet we can often times find ourselves over analyzing situations to the point of mental exhaustion and chances are good that the person who we think did us so horribly wrong just was in a bad mood, or had a bad day or maybe they were just not really aware of how their action or inaction was going to affect us.
Let us all learn the art of allowing and going with the flow and giving grace to those around us.
Peace and love
