
05/06/2025
🧠 Connect the Docs: The Power of “I Get To”
Small reframes create big shifts in nervous system regulation.
When we say:
“I have to…”
The brain hears: pressure, obligation, survival.
When we shift to:
“I get to…”
The brain hears: choice, gratitude, safety.
✨ Reframe Examples:
• Instead of: I have to meal prep.
→ I get to fuel my body and support my long-term health.
• Instead of: I have to exercise.
→ I get to move my body and care for my physical and mental wellness.
• Instead of: I have to regulate my emotions again.
→ I get to protect my peace and support my nervous system.
• Instead of: I have to set boundaries.
→ I get to honor my limits and create healthy relationships.
🧠 Mind-Body Science:
• Calms the amygdala
• Supports cortisol balance
• Builds emotional flexibility
• Encourages executive functioning
• Anchors the nervous system in safety