28/02/2026
Many people believe they lost their voice somewhere along the way. More often, they adapted it.
You learned when to soften your tone and that your silence kept things calm. This was your nervous system protecting connection, at the cost of your voice becoming smaller.
Unfortunately this can also lead to occasional explosions where all the suppression of the voice is released in one, sometimes devastating moment.
Strangely this is actually preferable to the other possibility which is where the suppression becomes so internalised that it can express as physical disease.
In all cases the solution starts with finding a way to let your system feel safe enough to authentically express.
Over the years I have developed quite the tool kit of practices that are a great place to start. Let me know if you'd like me to send you one over.
And I leave you with a question...
Is the silence and occasional explosion dynamic something you resonate with or are there different ways in which your authentic expression has sometimes been limited?