26/12/2025
My thoughts have a mind of their own! If I’m not careful they will run the whole show and before I know it, I’m watching a tragedy with a horrible ending!
My thoughts run around without any supervision most of the time and the results are usually disastrous.
Fear, recrimination, guilt, judgements, and second guessing take place in my head most of the time without any push back from me.
It’s like I’m in a kindergarten class with open cans of paint all over the room and the kids are allowed to do anything they want! Stuff gets flung all over the place.
So this is a gentle reminder to myself and anyone who needs to hear it that we can at anytime pause to listen to the noise that’s happening in our heads and take control of it.
Even for a brief moment.
I start by actually listening to what I’m saying to myself.
Wow.
That’s enough to put my hair on fire.
Then I can ask myself if what I’m saying to myself is true (usually not) then is it something that is helpful (usually not).
I then say “hey thanks for the feedback but that’s not really helping me right now” and think about something that brings me relief or joy or something I’ve done that’s awesome.
Mind you, (pun) this might only get me relief for a few moments but it’s worth it and offers me a rare opportunity to stop the show my thoughts are putting on.
It’s also training me to be aware of the circus in my head and giving me permission to put an end to it.
If our thoughts are not entertaining us we don’t have to entertain them.
Let remember to get the hook, pull the plug, shut it down and lock them up. It’s like a raid on our brain.
Go for it.
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