15/08/2025
We've marked every "heartiversary" by giving back in some way to a group or organization that has helped Naomi. The first year, we held a gift card drive to gift every family in Duke's pediatric cardiac ICU. The second, we helped with a fundraiser for Donate Life NC. The third, we gave funds to Naomi's child development center. Fourth year, we hosted a donation drive for Levine Children's Hospital's cardiac ICU, for kids' blankets, socks and headbands. Fifth through eighth years saw us give to Naomi's elementary school, Beads of Courage, a year of random donations in the community, and a request to help a friend who had cared for Naomi before she could attend daycare.
This year Naomi is quite adamant she does not want to take part in any giving. As her mom, I can understand how she feels and I respect that. But you are still going to get a request from me!
About seven months after we became a family of three, I lost my job due to budget cuts. I looked for work for 18 months. One of the nonprofits that kept us fed--and we know how much Naomi loves food--is the Fuquay Varina Emergency Food Pantry. In fact, if you remember, Naomi was very clear that for her 5th birthday, she wanted to do a food donation drive for them. A photo from back then is below.
These volunteers do hard work, important work. Tasks that don't always get noticed or praised. But they keep showing up because they care about people. They know children shouldn't go hungry. And the food is really good!
So, if you can, please make a donation to the Fuquay Varina Emergency Food Pantry today. I went yesterday in person (they are on site Tuesdays and Thursdays) and shared Naomi's story and wrote them a check. They were very touched and I know they would be so grateful for your support, in memory of Naomi's donor and in thankfulness for these nine years with her. Thank you so, so much. https://www.fvfoodpantry.com/
